"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i dont know what it is about me. i feel so unattractive as a guy. i have some good looking friends and we went to the club and the girls pulled both of them on the dance floor and grinded with them, leaving me alone. i feel like i dont have the ability to sexually attract any women and its depressing. i asked this other girl on a date and she went but she wont touch me at all. maybe im just an ugly guy. anyways heres a picture of me to rag on. http://smg.photobucket.com/albums/v627/jlr12584/?action=view&current=Picture1.jpg.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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please rephase you post only using positives, remove all negatives.


When they all hit the dance dance floor, thats you cue to follow, just repeat what she does if you don't know how to dance. Act and dance goofy and the chicks will laugh. Put one of your hands on the side of her hip at the waist put your other arm in the air and start shaking it. :rockon:

I won't comment on your pic, but you should have no problems with women,
READ the DJ BIBLE and work the program. It is all about confidence.
 
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dude u not ugly at all, are u serious???? coz even my cousin, she thinks u cute, may be work-out !!
 
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i have plenty problems getting a girl. no matter how funny or outgoing i am, it doesnt do anything.
 
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Well, you're not ugly, so get over that part.

Must be something else. Your confidence sure sucks, and girls are confidence-detectors.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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realsmoothie said:
Well, you're not ugly, so get over that part.

Must be something else. Your confidence sure sucks, and girls are confidence-detectors.
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same, trust me confidence goes a long way. you have to have the mindset of a true dj 24/7 no matter where you go. confidence 24/7. we can't keep saying this over and over, women loves a man with confidence (not fake) and you will love yourself more for that.
 
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