i dont know what it is about me. i feel so unattractive as a guy. i have some good looking friends and we went to the club and the girls pulled both of them on the dance floor and grinded with them, leaving me alone. i feel like i dont have the ability to sexually attract any women and its depressing. i asked this other girl on a date and she went but she wont touch me at all. maybe im just an ugly guy. anyways heres a picture of me to rag on. http://smg.photobucket.com/albums/v627/jlr12584/?action=view¤t=Picture1.jpg.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
please rephase you post only using positives, remove all negatives.
When they all hit the dance dance floor, thats you cue to follow, just repeat what she does if you don't know how to dance. Act and dance goofy and the chicks will laugh. Put one of your hands on the side of her hip at the waist put your other arm in the air and start shaking it. :rockon:
I won't comment on your pic, but you should have no problems with women,
READ the DJ BIBLE and work the program. It is all about confidence.
When they all hit the dance dance floor, thats you cue to follow, just repeat what she does if you don't know how to dance. Act and dance goofy and the chicks will laugh. Put one of your hands on the side of her hip at the waist put your other arm in the air and start shaking it. :rockon:
I won't comment on your pic, but you should have no problems with women,
READ the DJ BIBLE and work the program. It is all about confidence.
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Well, you're not ugly, so get over that part.
Must be something else. Your confidence sure sucks, and girls are confidence-detectors.
Must be something else. Your confidence sure sucks, and girls are confidence-detectors.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
same, trust me confidence goes a long way. you have to have the mindset of a true dj 24/7 no matter where you go. confidence 24/7. we can't keep saying this over and over, women loves a man with confidence (not fake) and you will love yourself more for that.realsmoothie said:Well, you're not ugly, so get over that part.
Must be something else. Your confidence sure sucks, and girls are confidence-detectors.