"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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jlr12584

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i dont know what it is about me. i feel so unattractive as a guy. i have some good looking friends and we went to the club and the girls pulled both of them on the dance floor and grinded with them, leaving me alone. i feel like i dont have the ability to sexually attract any women and its depressing. i asked this other girl on a date and she went but she wont touch me at all. maybe im just an ugly guy. anyways heres a picture of me to rag on. http://smg.photobucket.com/albums/v627/jlr12584/?action=view&current=Picture1.jpg.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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rocky_mtn

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please rephase you post only using positives, remove all negatives.


When they all hit the dance dance floor, thats you cue to follow, just repeat what she does if you don't know how to dance. Act and dance goofy and the chicks will laugh. Put one of your hands on the side of her hip at the waist put your other arm in the air and start shaking it. :rockon:

I won't comment on your pic, but you should have no problems with women,
READ the DJ BIBLE and work the program. It is all about confidence.
 

mikak

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dude u not ugly at all, are u serious???? coz even my cousin, she thinks u cute, may be work-out !!
 

jlr12584

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i have plenty problems getting a girl. no matter how funny or outgoing i am, it doesnt do anything.
 

realsmoothie

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Well, you're not ugly, so get over that part.

Must be something else. Your confidence sure sucks, and girls are confidence-detectors.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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t00dumb

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realsmoothie said:
Well, you're not ugly, so get over that part.

Must be something else. Your confidence sure sucks, and girls are confidence-detectors.
same, trust me confidence goes a long way. you have to have the mindset of a true dj 24/7 no matter where you go. confidence 24/7. we can't keep saying this over and over, women loves a man with confidence (not fake) and you will love yourself more for that.
 
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