"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Help....now!
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
BeDJ
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And thus, you already did.GADavid said:
After going through recent posts, I want to give these AFCs advice they want to hear and have them learn from it.
Greasy Pig
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She dumped you, so it's up to her to try to make things right....if she wants to.
If she doesn't, well that's her loss and you just carry on with your life.
Work should be your number 1 priority now, don't try to initiate anything with her and if she speaks to you, keep it courteous and professional.
It's tough, I know, I've been there. But you have to be strong and show this bytch that you don't give a fvck.
Mike32ct
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Continue working unphased by it. Be polite and professional but only talk to her if its work related.
After she gets it out of her system, she might or might not talk to you. It's beyond your control.
Her not talking to you or being short with you is silly game of chicken. Don't back down and TRY to befriend her. That's rewarding bad behavior.
If she finally starts being friendly to you, you can be a bit more friendly back but you must keep it professional.
Don't say a WORD about this to other coworkers eg "What's up with Kate? Is she mad at me?" That would get back to her and let her know she's affecting you with her moods.
Mike32ct
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
BeDJ
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It seems to me that she may put you on the friendzone. This is your last shot, you need some aggressive Kino. Slapping her in the ass at the workplace goes in line with the I Don't Give a F*ck (about my life) Alpha attitude.
What has this girl done for you to be so scared of her? The only persons anyone should be scared of are the police and creditors who may call loans.GADavid said:
It's just a girl, you giving her so much value without getting money in return is dangerous. You are allowing her to be short with you, you are allowing her to make fun of you. Do you think she would act this way to her boss? Step your game up bro.
I'm done with it. I'm the most persistent guy in the world, but that is a situation nobody could win.
The Gambler
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Might be too late, but if she says anything in the future.... You should just have a good-natured chuckle with her and laugh at yourself. The ultimate in confidence is the ability to do that. You're a new man now, and feel free to laugh at the "old you" that you left behind.GADavid said: