I am 22 year old having a good time so far at my workplace. I got drunk last week and shared things about girls I dated at work to my team members. This morning I got a text from a girl who is still working with me who I’ve been avoiding (no contact ) because she being very clingy on the first date and I did joke this with my team. The text is “we need to talk you are spreading rumours about me”. I did not respond to it ,I would usually avoid the text but since she works with me I don’t want Her to make a scene. What would be the next thing to do. Call text or ask her to meet??
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- Thread starter rayv12
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
KingofPuss
Master Don Juan
Agreed and disagreed. Tell her you were tipsy and forget exactly what you said. Apologize, DONT SAY SORRY. Say somthing like "I apologize, that's out of character for me. I don't remember what I said exactly but I do not spread rumors. It will not happen again."
Keep your pen out of company ink.
Thanks! I apologised she understood!
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