I am 22 year old having a good time so far at my workplace. I got drunk last week and shared things about girls I dated at work to my team members. This morning I got a text from a girl who is still working with me who I’ve been avoiding (no contact ) because she being very clingy on the first date and I did joke this with my team. The text is “we need to talk you are spreading rumours about me”. I did not respond to it ,I would usually avoid the text but since she works with me I don’t want Her to make a scene. What would be the next thing to do. Call text or ask her to meet??
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
KingofPuss
Master Don Juan
Agreed and disagreed. Tell her you were tipsy and forget exactly what you said. Apologize, DONT SAY SORRY. Say somthing like "I apologize, that's out of character for me. I don't remember what I said exactly but I do not spread rumors. It will not happen again."
Keep your pen out of company ink.
Thanks! I apologised she understood!
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