I am 22 year old having a good time so far at my workplace. I got drunk last week and shared things about girls I dated at work to my team members. This morning I got a text from a girl who is still working with me who I’ve been avoiding (no contact ) because she being very clingy on the first date and I did joke this with my team. The text is “we need to talk you are spreading rumours about me”. I did not respond to it ,I would usually avoid the text but since she works with me I don’t want Her to make a scene. What would be the next thing to do. Call text or ask her to meet??
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Help needed!! Urgent
- Thread starter rayv12
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
KingofPuss
Master Don Juan
Agreed and disagreed. Tell her you were tipsy and forget exactly what you said. Apologize, DONT SAY SORRY. Say somthing like "I apologize, that's out of character for me. I don't remember what I said exactly but I do not spread rumors. It will not happen again."
Keep your pen out of company ink.
Thanks! I apologised she understood!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.