Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
My worry is looking gay if i do get something like that lol.Try getting some diamond earrings! They can really help. I was considered a nerd too but when I got my ears pierced it helped destroy that image. They’re not expensive and it doesn’t hurt.
I can't grow a beard, no matter how long I go without shaving, it grows in patchy.Grow out a beard if you can. Bytches love beards.
I only get this haircut because it looked good when i got it and i have no other ideas in mindPersonally I’d cut the flat top, but that’s just my personal preference. I feel like people assume you’re a nerd if you have that cut. I’m a waver myself, but if you like your hair long maybe get some curls instead?
Lol true. To me a waver is anyone going through the process thoBro you're an attempted waver dont get it twisted.
I co-sign the beard though, get some facial hair asap. Or at least draw it on with marker pen.
Not roasting the haircut just my personal preference. Fade looks good.My worry is looking gay if i do get something like that lol.
I can't grow a beard, no matter how long I go without shaving, it grows in patchy.
I only get this haircut because it looked good when i got it and i have no other ideas in mind
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Why not try Photofeeler?God damn, hope that's not a common opinion
Welp after epicurous' post ignorance is blissWhy not try Photofeeler?
Get rich and get mad.Welp after epicurous' post ignorance is bliss
I mean, i don't particularly want to look mean or angry all the time, but even if i put that aside because girls like it, it's not particularly congruent with my personality to walk around looking like batman so i dunno really...As another member stated, you look too nice.
Sharpen up your body language like a bad boy, a guy who's not going to be messed around with. Goggle and YouTube it.
That blazer looks a bit big on you.
Smile less. Pump your chest out etc.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Bro you are young, but with all due respect, it's why I always tried to preach a requirement of posting pics on this forum. It allows other members to see who exactly we are "taking advice from".I mean, i don't particularly want to look mean or angry all the time, but even if i put that aside because girls like it, it's not particularly congruent with my personality to walk around looking like batman so i dunno really...
Where are you guys seeing a "6" at in those pics? The dude is a solid 3 or 4. If he takes the steps I listed above, THEN he moves to a 6. From there, he can continue to build upon that successful foundation to get to a PEAK of a 7 to 7.5, but being at a 6 to 7 would be sufficient enough for him to pull consistent 6.5 to 7.5 women if he plays the numbers game.At the moment, you're about a general 6/10. Take the advice and you'll be an 8 by Christmas.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.