"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Help maintaining a potential FWB without a place to go

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Giovanni SouthSide

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A $60-$70 mo-mo can be 3/4 star and be comfy as hell. you just gotta shop around. Download the hotels.com app. better deals on the app than walking in.
If she really got the feelz for you she will split the motel.
I used to have 2 motels locked in that I took girls back in my youngin days. I was 18-19 years old and they would be riding the city bus with me to the room.
There is nothing like fvcking nice and proper in an actual bed or couch.
 
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BillyPilgrim

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A $60-$70 mo-mo can be 3/4 star and be comfy as hell. you just gotta shop around. Download the hotels.com app. better deals on the app than walking in.
If she really got the feelz for you she will split the motel.
I used to have 2 motels locked in that I took girls back in my youngin days. I was 18-19 years old and they would be riding the city bus with me to the room.
There is nothing like fvcking nice and proper in an actual bed or couch.
They have all kinds of nice motels in TJ lol
 

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Little update.

Saw her this weekend, said we had to go to her place again. No issues, she was much better behaved this time and way quieter, which is good.

When we got home her roommates (who I learned were lesbians) were f***ing, which we heard, and thought was funny considering the s*** they gave her for the same thing.

Left in the morning and apparently, they STILL chewed her out, even despite the fact that WE heard THEM just the same. So she's texting me that it definitely has to be my place next time so I'm not sure how I'd maintain this beyond just telling the roommates to f*** off.

I don't really know what kind of trouble she can get into by going that route. She moves into a new place in June anyway.
 
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