"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hi, I'm only 168cm. Thats around 5'6 to 5'7. Anyone else around my height? How do you have great confidence? Thanks.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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elo's... I tend to have the same problem at times.... I start off the night with 200% confidence... then i happen to walk past a tall good looking model guy whick sends my confidence to the bottom of the ocean... well, should i say, DID.. you see.... height for chicks doesnt REALLY matter that much, actually, some chicks DONT like a guy that is TOO tall... 1.68 is not SHORT! What i do now is i will just continue to walk & remember that i am better than him & i DO get chicks, even though he IS taller than me! So it doesnt bother me at all now;) Its all in your head... mental control is what u need.

Remember.. the girl will fall in love with u/want you because of who u are & ur actions etc, NOT your height!

Keep well...

Laterz...
 

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I am 168 as well.

well no i am 67 inches I use american! haha

dude confidence is a mind set..believe me unless you are like 5'3" and under you have no excuse !!!!!
 

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Dude I am only 5-9 or about average height, but my little brother is 5-7 and he gets pyssy galore with hot women.

Don't let your height bring you down (no pun intended). I really think height is over rated as I see many short to average height guys hanging on to hot girls. Confidence is the key.

I admit however, that some times I feel self conscious especially when I go out with my friends most of whom are taller than me. :(
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'm 5'8.

Most of my friends are taller than me.

But guess what - they don't get the poon - and I do.

I never feel short.

I often get told that I look taller than I actually am.

I work out alot and I'm into martial arts. I play lot's of sports as well - ride Dirt bikes etc. etc.

What that gives me is ultimate confidence in my physical abilities. I've got broad shoulders - narrow waist. A nice set of guns - and thick neck. Now I'm no steroid monster - but compared to joe average - I'm pretty built. That's a huge advantage over the majority of people who haven't run on a track since high school.


Of course there are going to be guys who are taller - better looking, richer, etc. etc. but don't forget that everything comes in a package. If you work on yourself as a well rounded, rugged individualist, your going to be in the top 5% of guys out there....

remember that.
 

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I am 5'9 and height is the last thing on my mind. Most women are around 5'3-5'5 anyway, as long as you are taller than the average women, I think you are fine.
 

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NO WAY! Girls LOVE taller guys, I dont know why, Im 5' 8, and wear high shoes that make me look 6 foot

have u ever noticed, shorter girls r easier to hit on? it sounds superfical, but girls like taller guys
 

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I got you all beat at 5'11......who wants to fight? I 'm down
 

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im 5ft 11 and happy with that height, i think being very tall can also be bad.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by ManOMan
Im 5' 8, and wear high shoes that make me look 6 foot
That's false advertisment!

:D
 

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so is a chick getting boob jobs, nose jobs, trimming their eyebrows, and putting on 50 lbs of makeup..ever see a chick without makeup? they look nothing like themselves
 

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Originally posted by ManOMan
Im 5' 8, and wear high shoes that make me look 6 foot
Dude platforms don't look good on a guy... Unless you can prove me wrong. Got a pic of that?
 

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they arent platforms..they are soles from Sharper Image that add 1" to your height..plus your shoes add another 2 "..so you got 3 inches to lie about :)
 
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Originally posted by aequitas
elo's... I tend to have the same problem at times.... I start off the night with 200% confidence... then i happen to walk past a tall good looking model guy whick sends my confidence to the bottom of the ocean... well, should i say, DID.. you see.... height for chicks doesnt REALLY matter that much, actually, some chicks DONT like a guy that is TOO tall... 1.68 is not SHORT! What i do now is i will just continue to walk & remember that i am better than him & i DO get chicks, even though he IS taller than me! So it doesnt bother me at all now;) Its all in your head... mental control is what u need.

Remember.. the girl will fall in love with u/want you because of who u are & ur actions etc, NOT your height!

Keep well...

Laterz...
i think u talkin about the little 14 year olds bro, all women love tall guys as long as not skinny skeleton.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by ManOMan
NO WAY! Girls LOVE taller guys, I dont know why, Im 5' 8, and wear high shoes that make me look 6 foot

have u ever noticed, shorter girls r easier to hit on? it sounds superfical, but girls like taller guys
ManOMan,

At some point, perhaps while you and your chick(s) are totally butt naked, she or they are going to see you at your natural height, so how do you explain the loss of 4 inches?!

Height doesn't mean a damn thing. If you've demonstrated to the girl that you're a guy that's a real man then it's on.

Just my 2 cents.

Cheers,
Mav
 

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I remember some girl shoooting me down..she said I was too short..the funny thing is she was in High Heels..in reality I was taller than her..she was like 5'4"
 

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maverick..after you bang a chick..you dont have to explain a thing..

how about women? how do they explain they look nothing like themselves without make-up?
 

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do you really wear that **** to make u taller?


this is rediculous...I will say this again to whoever started the thread..I am 5 7 inches...and I have no problem getting women...and women who are up to 5' 9"..they might "prefere" a taller man..but I dont give a ****. :)
 

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unfortunately, Yes I wear them.

If you are good looking and short..u can get away with that..but if you are average and short..its not gonna fly
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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