"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dukester
Master Don Juan
Its all in your head... mental control is what u need.Remember.. the girl will fall in love with u/want you because of who u are & ur actions etc, NOT your height!
Keep well...
Laterz...
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
well no i am 67 inches I use american! haha
dude confidence is a mind set..believe me unless you are like 5'3" and under you have no excuse !!!!!
Don't let your height bring you down (no pun intended). I really think height is over rated as I see many short to average height guys hanging on to hot girls. Confidence is the key.
I admit however, that some times I feel self conscious especially when I go out with my friends most of whom are taller than me.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
NewMan
Master Don Juan
Most of my friends are taller than me.
But guess what - they don't get the poon - and I do.
I never feel short.
I often get told that I look taller than I actually am.
I work out alot and I'm into martial arts. I play lot's of sports as well - ride Dirt bikes etc. etc.
What that gives me is ultimate confidence in my physical abilities. I've got broad shoulders - narrow waist. A nice set of guns - and thick neck. Now I'm no steroid monster - but compared to joe average - I'm pretty built. That's a huge advantage over the majority of people who haven't run on a track since high school.
Of course there are going to be guys who are taller - better looking, richer, etc. etc. but don't forget that everything comes in a package. If you work on yourself as a well rounded, rugged individualist, your going to be in the top 5% of guys out there....
remember that.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
thefonz
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check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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i think u talkin about the little 14 year olds bro, all women love tall guys as long as not skinny skeleton.Originally posted by aequitas
elo's... I tend to have the same problem at times.... I start off the night with 200% confidence... then i happen to walk past a tall good looking model guy whick sends my confidence to the bottom of the ocean... well, should i say, DID.. you see.... height for chicks doesnt REALLY matter that much, actually, some chicks DONT like a guy that is TOO tall... 1.68 is not SHORT! What i do now is i will just continue to walk & remember that i am better than him & i DO get chicks, even though he IS taller than me! So it doesnt bother me at all now
Remember.. the girl will fall in love with u/want you because of who u are & ur actions etc, NOT your height!
Keep well...
Laterz...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Maverick001
Senior Don Juan
ManOMan,
At some point, perhaps while you and your chick(s) are totally butt naked, she or they are going to see you at your natural height, so how do you explain the loss of 4 inches?!
Height doesn't mean a damn thing. If you've demonstrated to the girl that you're a guy that's a real man then it's on.
Just my 2 cents.
Cheers,
Mav
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
this is rediculous...I will say this again to whoever started the thread..I am 5 7 inches...and I have no problem getting women...and women who are up to 5' 9"..they might "prefere" a taller man..but I dont give a ****.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.