"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Dukester
Master Don Juan
Its all in your head... mental control is what u need.Remember.. the girl will fall in love with u/want you because of who u are & ur actions etc, NOT your height!
Keep well...
Laterz...
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
well no i am 67 inches I use american! haha
dude confidence is a mind set..believe me unless you are like 5'3" and under you have no excuse !!!!!
Don't let your height bring you down (no pun intended). I really think height is over rated as I see many short to average height guys hanging on to hot girls. Confidence is the key.
I admit however, that some times I feel self conscious especially when I go out with my friends most of whom are taller than me.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
NewMan
Master Don Juan
Most of my friends are taller than me.
But guess what - they don't get the poon - and I do.
I never feel short.
I often get told that I look taller than I actually am.
I work out alot and I'm into martial arts. I play lot's of sports as well - ride Dirt bikes etc. etc.
What that gives me is ultimate confidence in my physical abilities. I've got broad shoulders - narrow waist. A nice set of guns - and thick neck. Now I'm no steroid monster - but compared to joe average - I'm pretty built. That's a huge advantage over the majority of people who haven't run on a track since high school.
Of course there are going to be guys who are taller - better looking, richer, etc. etc. but don't forget that everything comes in a package. If you work on yourself as a well rounded, rugged individualist, your going to be in the top 5% of guys out there....
remember that.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
thefonz
Master Don Juan
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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i think u talkin about the little 14 year olds bro, all women love tall guys as long as not skinny skeleton.Originally posted by aequitas
elo's... I tend to have the same problem at times.... I start off the night with 200% confidence... then i happen to walk past a tall good looking model guy whick sends my confidence to the bottom of the ocean... well, should i say, DID.. you see.... height for chicks doesnt REALLY matter that much, actually, some chicks DONT like a guy that is TOO tall... 1.68 is not SHORT! What i do now is i will just continue to walk & remember that i am better than him & i DO get chicks, even though he IS taller than me! So it doesnt bother me at all now
Remember.. the girl will fall in love with u/want you because of who u are & ur actions etc, NOT your height!
Keep well...
Laterz...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Maverick001
Senior Don Juan
ManOMan,
At some point, perhaps while you and your chick(s) are totally butt naked, she or they are going to see you at your natural height, so how do you explain the loss of 4 inches?!
Height doesn't mean a damn thing. If you've demonstrated to the girl that you're a guy that's a real man then it's on.
Just my 2 cents.
Cheers,
Mav
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
this is rediculous...I will say this again to whoever started the thread..I am 5 7 inches...and I have no problem getting women...and women who are up to 5' 9"..they might "prefere" a taller man..but I dont give a ****.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.