"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
Grow. lol.
nah jk, sucks man, i'm noyl 5'6 and i just bagged[and soon fvcked] a 5'8 JUNIOR[i'm a sophmore] so well..it can eb done.
jsut learn your game, play ti right...and know: unless shes only 2 inches taller, you probably won't get anywhere.
msot girls want Tall-Dark-Handsome.
For me its Short-Blonde-Handsome[ok, i think i am
] lol. I sitll get girls.Most girls will stop growing by sophmore year, u won't
jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
Grandmaster Sexay
Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
The TallOne
Don Juan
Some people hit it early (like me), some people take time.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
lol dude don't worry. My friend is 5'5". his girlfriend is oneof the most bangable girls I've ever seen. Don't even worry about it.
The TallOne
Don Juan
6'5"
Retrothe80sninja
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Oh man, I hear you on that one. (6'0 in 8th grade, 10th now, you guess
) I actualy got a joke from my old Gf that it felt funny dancing with me because I was so tall."You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Vigilante7
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thats too tall! no girls like men that tallOriginally posted by The TallOne
6'5"
6'0 - 6'2 is great
and im 6'2
I'm happy being 5'8, I'm taller than all the chicks, except for a few, and the ones taller than me are never as hot as the shorter onesOriginally posted by Vigilante7
thats too tall! no girls like men that tall
6'0 - 6'2 is great
and im 6'2
idiot_boyfriend
Senior Don Juan
Dude, I feel your pain. I'm five foot six, and I think I'm done growing.
Has it affected my success with women? Maybe....some women like taller guys....but as a DJ, this shouldn't affect you. If you like them, height should make no difference.
By the way, jaycraze, lets switch places, shall we?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
That's true. I'm 5'4 and you don't know the number of times I've said that to myself. Yet after nearly 18 years, you'd think I'd just accept the way I am. But it's not easy, and somedays it just gets to me so much I just...
I always ask myself 'why'. Why am I like this? Why can't I be normal just like every other guy? I try to console myself by saying it could be worse, I could have some disease or something. But why should I have to do that? 99% of other people don't, why do I have to be in that ****ty 1% of the population?
I can even remember back in kindergarten people making comments about my height, and I can actually remember feeling self-conscious about it at that age. Can you imagine people making such judgements or comments about you at 5 years old? Now imagine that sort of thing every day, of your entire childhood. What effect do you think that would have?
You all have no idea. I know you're saying stop feeling sorry for yourself and get the fúck over it. I say that to myself. It is just that saying that to myself is easy, but following that advice is, I truly believe, close to impossible.
The TallOne
Don Juan
Oh really?
And where do you get this information from?
i know that tall is considered a good factor
i even know that handsome is good...
but why dark?! i've always heard that the blondes are considered far nicer... the same with ladies...
maybe there in america the cool ones are the dark?!?!
Double_Diamonds
Don Juan
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.