Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I am not the tallest person in the world. only five foot four, would this affect my sucess with women? It hasnt so far, at least I dont think so. For now, I am only dating the shorter girls
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Patrick124

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I was 5'4 once.
Grow. lol.
nah jk, sucks man, i'm noyl 5'6 and i just bagged[and soon fvcked] a 5'8 JUNIOR[i'm a sophmore] so well..it can eb done.
jsut learn your game, play ti right...and know: unless shes only 2 inches taller, you probably won't get anywhere.
msot girls want Tall-Dark-Handsome.
For me its Short-Blonde-Handsome[ok, i think i am :p] lol. I sitll get girls.
Most girls will stop growing by sophmore year, u won't
 

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It depends. Have you got a "baby face" and unbroken voice? If so, you're screwed
 

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Originally posted by jonny football hero
It depends. Have you got a "baby face" and unbroken voice? If so, you're screwed
shut up :(

*looks back at himself soph year* :(
 
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I don't think height matters 'that' much IMO. Obviously it would help if your tall. Your only 15, you have a long way to go so don't worry too much about it now. Just get out there and be successful, don't let the height stop you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You probably haven't hit your growth spurt yet.

Some people hit it early (like me), some people take time.
 

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BAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHHAH I'm 6'2" !!!!

lol dude don't worry. My friend is 5'5". his girlfriend is oneof the most bangable girls I've ever seen. Don't even worry about it.
 

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Dude your lucky to be that height.. Try being 6'2 in 9th grade. It sucks... Most of the girls I know are like 5'3. Its sooo hard to dance with them.
 

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Originally posted by jaycraze
Dude your lucky to be that height.. Try being 6'2 in 9th grade. It sucks... Most of the girls I know are like 5'3. Its sooo hard to dance with them.
Oh man, I hear you on that one. (6'0 in 8th grade, 10th now, you guess ;) ) I actualy got a joke from my old Gf that it felt funny dancing with me because I was so tall.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Vigilante7
thats too tall! no girls like men that tall

6'0 - 6'2 is great

and im 6'2 :)
I'm happy being 5'8, I'm taller than all the chicks, except for a few, and the ones taller than me are never as hot as the shorter ones :D
 

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5'11" here almost 6'. I think my height is perfect, not to tall not to short. My girlfriend is about 5', its a little weird at times, but we both dont care about it.
 

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Originally posted by dastal
I am not the tallest person in the world. only five foot four, would this affect my sucess with women? It hasnt so far, at least I dont think so. For now, I am only dating the shorter girls
Dude, I feel your pain. I'm five foot six, and I think I'm done growing.

Has it affected my success with women? Maybe....some women like taller guys....but as a DJ, this shouldn't affect you. If you like them, height should make no difference.

By the way, jaycraze, lets switch places, shall we? :)
 

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Don't dwell on something you cant change. There's nothing you can do about how tall you are so don't worry about it. Go out and try your best and thats pretty much all you can do.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by ABM
Don't dwell on something you cant change. There's nothing you can do about how tall you are so don't worry about it. Go out and try your best and thats pretty much all you can do.
That's true. I'm 5'4 and you don't know the number of times I've said that to myself. Yet after nearly 18 years, you'd think I'd just accept the way I am. But it's not easy, and somedays it just gets to me so much I just...

I always ask myself 'why'. Why am I like this? Why can't I be normal just like every other guy? I try to console myself by saying it could be worse, I could have some disease or something. But why should I have to do that? 99% of other people don't, why do I have to be in that ****ty 1% of the population?

I can even remember back in kindergarten people making comments about my height, and I can actually remember feeling self-conscious about it at that age. Can you imagine people making such judgements or comments about you at 5 years old? Now imagine that sort of thing every day, of your entire childhood. What effect do you think that would have?

You all have no idea. I know you're saying stop feeling sorry for yourself and get the fúck over it. I say that to myself. It is just that saying that to myself is easy, but following that advice is, I truly believe, close to impossible.
 

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what u mean with "girls diggin' tall DARK handsome"?!

i know that tall is considered a good factor
i even know that handsome is good...
but why dark?! i've always heard that the blondes are considered far nicer... the same with ladies...

maybe there in america the cool ones are the dark?!?!
 

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hey jaycraze, I'm 14 and I'm 6'4. But when i wear cowboy boots im 6'6! It is hard to dance with girls at dances.
 

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height doesnt matter when your lying down



pull that line out when they comment on your height (if your short) the girls reaction afterwards is worth it.....also the p*ssy
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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