"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Heartless *****es' take on Nice Guys

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If any of you have ever been to www.heartless*****es.com and read their nice guys rant , you will notice an interesting take on the whole deal. The author of one of the articles says that Nice Guys are actually manipulative *******s who disingenuously get into platonic friendships just because they want to hit it, and then get mad at guys who have the balls to ask the girl out. I had personally never thought of it that way, and just thought of the whole thing as guys who just have no balls.

This cartoon they linked to gets the point across pretty well.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dirtheart

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Great find!!! Good to read a straightforward female perspective on this situation. I wish the girls I had dated in my AFC days had the guts to say this.
 

Kineti[C]harm

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my female friends are fully open about that stuff, get good female friends they are invaluable :)
 

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Kinetic: I wish my female friends were that honest. Mine always feed me the same bullsh*t about wanting a sweet, caring and faithful guy. Hell, I think I know more about what they want than they do. :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Kineti[C]harm

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Strange, my female friends will tell me who they find hot, why (Like he's a badguy, he looks criminal or whatever), how big a **** some dude had, how long he lasted in bed, how they'd love to get fvcked by that guy inn a bathroom or whatever.

They have no issues undressing and changing infront of me either. This is probably cause I'm not shy either :) I remember when I used to have sex with a couple of them when I went to get a towell I'd hang it on my boner and parade it dancing upto her and have her take of the towell and kiss it :p

If you are open with them then they will be open with you :) It's secret society stuff.
 

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WTF!?!?!?

I kinda had a female friend like that. Then we had sex.
Hmmmm......
 

Kineti[C]harm

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That's how most of them became such good friends with me, because we had sex :) They were fvckbuddies or simular :) A couple I never laid but became VERY VERY Good friends just because we click so good :) I've seen them nekkid and they have no issues with that either :) Which is cool.
 
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