"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Heartless *****es' take on Nice Guys

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If any of you have ever been to www.heartless*****es.com and read their nice guys rant , you will notice an interesting take on the whole deal. The author of one of the articles says that Nice Guys are actually manipulative *******s who disingenuously get into platonic friendships just because they want to hit it, and then get mad at guys who have the balls to ask the girl out. I had personally never thought of it that way, and just thought of the whole thing as guys who just have no balls.

This cartoon they linked to gets the point across pretty well.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Great find!!! Good to read a straightforward female perspective on this situation. I wish the girls I had dated in my AFC days had the guts to say this.
 
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my female friends are fully open about that stuff, get good female friends they are invaluable :)
 
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Kinetic: I wish my female friends were that honest. Mine always feed me the same bullsh*t about wanting a sweet, caring and faithful guy. Hell, I think I know more about what they want than they do. :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Strange, my female friends will tell me who they find hot, why (Like he's a badguy, he looks criminal or whatever), how big a **** some dude had, how long he lasted in bed, how they'd love to get fvcked by that guy inn a bathroom or whatever.

They have no issues undressing and changing infront of me either. This is probably cause I'm not shy either :) I remember when I used to have sex with a couple of them when I went to get a towell I'd hang it on my boner and parade it dancing upto her and have her take of the towell and kiss it :p

If you are open with them then they will be open with you :) It's secret society stuff.
 
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WTF!?!?!?

I kinda had a female friend like that. Then we had sex.
Hmmmm......
 
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That's how most of them became such good friends with me, because we had sex :) They were fvckbuddies or simular :) A couple I never laid but became VERY VERY Good friends just because we click so good :) I've seen them nekkid and they have no issues with that either :) Which is cool.
 
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