"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Heartless *****es' take on Nice Guys

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If any of you have ever been to www.heartless*****es.com and read their nice guys rant , you will notice an interesting take on the whole deal. The author of one of the articles says that Nice Guys are actually manipulative *******s who disingenuously get into platonic friendships just because they want to hit it, and then get mad at guys who have the balls to ask the girl out. I had personally never thought of it that way, and just thought of the whole thing as guys who just have no balls.

This cartoon they linked to gets the point across pretty well.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Great find!!! Good to read a straightforward female perspective on this situation. I wish the girls I had dated in my AFC days had the guts to say this.
 
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my female friends are fully open about that stuff, get good female friends they are invaluable :)
 
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Kinetic: I wish my female friends were that honest. Mine always feed me the same bullsh*t about wanting a sweet, caring and faithful guy. Hell, I think I know more about what they want than they do. :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Kineti[C]harm

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Strange, my female friends will tell me who they find hot, why (Like he's a badguy, he looks criminal or whatever), how big a **** some dude had, how long he lasted in bed, how they'd love to get fvcked by that guy inn a bathroom or whatever.

They have no issues undressing and changing infront of me either. This is probably cause I'm not shy either :) I remember when I used to have sex with a couple of them when I went to get a towell I'd hang it on my boner and parade it dancing upto her and have her take of the towell and kiss it :p

If you are open with them then they will be open with you :) It's secret society stuff.
 
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WTF!?!?!?

I kinda had a female friend like that. Then we had sex.
Hmmmm......
 
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That's how most of them became such good friends with me, because we had sex :) They were fvckbuddies or simular :) A couple I never laid but became VERY VERY Good friends just because we click so good :) I've seen them nekkid and they have no issues with that either :) Which is cool.
 
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