"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Heartless *****es' take on Nice Guys

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If any of you have ever been to www.heartless*****es.com and read their nice guys rant , you will notice an interesting take on the whole deal. The author of one of the articles says that Nice Guys are actually manipulative *******s who disingenuously get into platonic friendships just because they want to hit it, and then get mad at guys who have the balls to ask the girl out. I had personally never thought of it that way, and just thought of the whole thing as guys who just have no balls.

This cartoon they linked to gets the point across pretty well.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Great find!!! Good to read a straightforward female perspective on this situation. I wish the girls I had dated in my AFC days had the guts to say this.
 

Kineti[C]harm

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my female friends are fully open about that stuff, get good female friends they are invaluable :)
 

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Kinetic: I wish my female friends were that honest. Mine always feed me the same bullsh*t about wanting a sweet, caring and faithful guy. Hell, I think I know more about what they want than they do. :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Kineti[C]harm

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Strange, my female friends will tell me who they find hot, why (Like he's a badguy, he looks criminal or whatever), how big a **** some dude had, how long he lasted in bed, how they'd love to get fvcked by that guy inn a bathroom or whatever.

They have no issues undressing and changing infront of me either. This is probably cause I'm not shy either :) I remember when I used to have sex with a couple of them when I went to get a towell I'd hang it on my boner and parade it dancing upto her and have her take of the towell and kiss it :p

If you are open with them then they will be open with you :) It's secret society stuff.
 

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WTF!?!?!?

I kinda had a female friend like that. Then we had sex.
Hmmmm......
 

Kineti[C]harm

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That's how most of them became such good friends with me, because we had sex :) They were fvckbuddies or simular :) A couple I never laid but became VERY VERY Good friends just because we click so good :) I've seen them nekkid and they have no issues with that either :) Which is cool.
 
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