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Gauging
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
HB?
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- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Aryan Prince
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8 to 10.dependant on attitude!
Tictac
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Who gives a flying f*ck what anybody else thinks?
Do YOU like her?
Gauging what?
LOL
Do YOU like her?
Gauging what?
LOL
CuddleJunkie
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Yeah, around 8, I would say 7.5. Who's the girl bro?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Maximus Rex
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Attitude has absolutely NOTHING to do with a woman's looks.
Aryan Prince
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Yer it does iv met attractive women who once opened their mouth they become 4 or 5 less then what they.were originaly. Attitude/2much can make people quite ugly!!! Gauging on looks alone 7-8!
Maximus Rex
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Would that stop you from blowin' her back out though?
Aryan Prince
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It depends how much of a jerk is.... I get off on knocking back gud looking girls who have to much attitude, its brlliant, it ****s them up as the pretty ones are used to white night betas proping their ego, so when u dont play ball they left confused and angry... Pretty cool!!!
SmooveMooves
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Video project for class.
I am smitten kitten over here. So I needed to hear that shes not the goddess I think lol
I am smitten kitten over here. So I needed to hear that shes not the goddess I think lol
marmel75
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She is definitely hot, but she is just a woman.
Don't make the mistake most people make of assigning great traits to her based on her looks. Assume she is unworthy of you until she proves otherwise. Looks and personality traits have no bearing on each other.
Act as if she is auditioning for the best thing in the world.....You.
Don't make the mistake most people make of assigning great traits to her based on her looks. Assume she is unworthy of you until she proves otherwise. Looks and personality traits have no bearing on each other.
Act as if she is auditioning for the best thing in the world.....You.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Everyone has a different idea of what is what. Most guys LAUGH at what I consider a 10. As far as the subject... we'll she's attractive but she is not my type. I would approach her she's a 7.
She's kinda hot, I'd give her a 7.5. But she looks like the type who will put on a ton of weight and go downhill quick. In 5-10 years I bet she'll be about a 6.
For ex that girl in the pic, after talking her for 5 min I might find out she's a selfish nasty b*tch and lower her to a 6.
You're usually on point, but this time not so much. A woman's personality augments her looks. Attitude is part of personality. It's a huge factor.
For ex that girl in the pic, after talking her for 5 min I might find out she's a selfish nasty b*tch and lower her to a 6.
Building_and_Loan
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Very attractive. Weird you took that picture (unless you didn't) and posted it online, watch out because you never know who happens on this site and could get you in trouble.
But yeah, she's pretty. Looks like she could be catty and sassy though unfortunately haha.
But yeah, she's pretty. Looks like she could be catty and sassy though unfortunately haha.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Come on bro, you are smitten at 31? You should have 10 of her type begging to have sex with you at your age. You are not a teenager in love, you are an adult who should have the world by its midsection.
This is real world where money and power and sex rules. That's all you should care about.
This is real world where money and power and sex rules. That's all you should care about.
Aryan Prince
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Im i the only one who thinks that the OP might be the woman in the picture.... Damn we be.feeding trolls!!!
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I'm at the girl in the pic. But I feel I'm just as attractive and that's why im lusting after her and all similar girls cuz I feel two attractive peeps should be all over each other.
But yeah...my personality might drop me down a point and vice versa. Or up a point.
Its true money and power rule in the big mans world. Nice to have a slap of reality.
But yeah...my personality might drop me down a point and vice versa. Or up a point.
Its true money and power rule in the big mans world. Nice to have a slap of reality.
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* I'm not the girl
Aryan Prince
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C
Charisma, smell good, have.a good body beats money and power everytime!!!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.