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Gauging
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Aryan Prince
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8 to 10.dependant on attitude!
Tictac
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Who gives a flying f*ck what anybody else thinks?
Do YOU like her?
Gauging what?
LOL
Do YOU like her?
Gauging what?
LOL
CuddleJunkie
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Yeah, around 8, I would say 7.5. Who's the girl bro?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Maximus Rex
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Attitude has absolutely NOTHING to do with a woman's looks.
Aryan Prince
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Yer it does iv met attractive women who once opened their mouth they become 4 or 5 less then what they.were originaly. Attitude/2much can make people quite ugly!!! Gauging on looks alone 7-8!
Maximus Rex
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Would that stop you from blowin' her back out though?
Aryan Prince
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It depends how much of a jerk is.... I get off on knocking back gud looking girls who have to much attitude, its brlliant, it ****s them up as the pretty ones are used to white night betas proping their ego, so when u dont play ball they left confused and angry... Pretty cool!!!
SmooveMooves
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Video project for class.
I am smitten kitten over here. So I needed to hear that shes not the goddess I think lol
I am smitten kitten over here. So I needed to hear that shes not the goddess I think lol
marmel75
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She is definitely hot, but she is just a woman.
Don't make the mistake most people make of assigning great traits to her based on her looks. Assume she is unworthy of you until she proves otherwise. Looks and personality traits have no bearing on each other.
Act as if she is auditioning for the best thing in the world.....You.
Don't make the mistake most people make of assigning great traits to her based on her looks. Assume she is unworthy of you until she proves otherwise. Looks and personality traits have no bearing on each other.
Act as if she is auditioning for the best thing in the world.....You.
RangerMIke
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Everyone has a different idea of what is what. Most guys LAUGH at what I consider a 10. As far as the subject... we'll she's attractive but she is not my type. I would approach her she's a 7.
She's kinda hot, I'd give her a 7.5. But she looks like the type who will put on a ton of weight and go downhill quick. In 5-10 years I bet she'll be about a 6.
For ex that girl in the pic, after talking her for 5 min I might find out she's a selfish nasty b*tch and lower her to a 6.
You're usually on point, but this time not so much. A woman's personality augments her looks. Attitude is part of personality. It's a huge factor.
For ex that girl in the pic, after talking her for 5 min I might find out she's a selfish nasty b*tch and lower her to a 6.
Building_and_Loan
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Very attractive. Weird you took that picture (unless you didn't) and posted it online, watch out because you never know who happens on this site and could get you in trouble.
But yeah, she's pretty. Looks like she could be catty and sassy though unfortunately haha.
But yeah, she's pretty. Looks like she could be catty and sassy though unfortunately haha.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Come on bro, you are smitten at 31? You should have 10 of her type begging to have sex with you at your age. You are not a teenager in love, you are an adult who should have the world by its midsection.
This is real world where money and power and sex rules. That's all you should care about.
This is real world where money and power and sex rules. That's all you should care about.
Aryan Prince
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Im i the only one who thinks that the OP might be the woman in the picture.... Damn we be.feeding trolls!!!
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I'm at the girl in the pic. But I feel I'm just as attractive and that's why im lusting after her and all similar girls cuz I feel two attractive peeps should be all over each other.
But yeah...my personality might drop me down a point and vice versa. Or up a point.
Its true money and power rule in the big mans world. Nice to have a slap of reality.
But yeah...my personality might drop me down a point and vice versa. Or up a point.
Its true money and power rule in the big mans world. Nice to have a slap of reality.
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* I'm not the girl
Aryan Prince
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Charisma, smell good, have.a good body beats money and power everytime!!!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.