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Gauging
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
HB?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Aryan Prince
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8 to 10.dependant on attitude!
Tictac
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Who gives a flying f*ck what anybody else thinks?
Do YOU like her?
Gauging what?
LOL
Do YOU like her?
Gauging what?
LOL
CuddleJunkie
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Yeah, around 8, I would say 7.5. Who's the girl bro?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Maximus Rex
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Attitude has absolutely NOTHING to do with a woman's looks.
Aryan Prince
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Yer it does iv met attractive women who once opened their mouth they become 4 or 5 less then what they.were originaly. Attitude/2much can make people quite ugly!!! Gauging on looks alone 7-8!
Maximus Rex
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Would that stop you from blowin' her back out though?
Aryan Prince
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It depends how much of a jerk is.... I get off on knocking back gud looking girls who have to much attitude, its brlliant, it ****s them up as the pretty ones are used to white night betas proping their ego, so when u dont play ball they left confused and angry... Pretty cool!!!
SmooveMooves
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Video project for class.
I am smitten kitten over here. So I needed to hear that shes not the goddess I think lol
I am smitten kitten over here. So I needed to hear that shes not the goddess I think lol
marmel75
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She is definitely hot, but she is just a woman.
Don't make the mistake most people make of assigning great traits to her based on her looks. Assume she is unworthy of you until she proves otherwise. Looks and personality traits have no bearing on each other.
Act as if she is auditioning for the best thing in the world.....You.
Don't make the mistake most people make of assigning great traits to her based on her looks. Assume she is unworthy of you until she proves otherwise. Looks and personality traits have no bearing on each other.
Act as if she is auditioning for the best thing in the world.....You.
RangerMIke
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Everyone has a different idea of what is what. Most guys LAUGH at what I consider a 10. As far as the subject... we'll she's attractive but she is not my type. I would approach her she's a 7.
She's kinda hot, I'd give her a 7.5. But she looks like the type who will put on a ton of weight and go downhill quick. In 5-10 years I bet she'll be about a 6.
For ex that girl in the pic, after talking her for 5 min I might find out she's a selfish nasty b*tch and lower her to a 6.
You're usually on point, but this time not so much. A woman's personality augments her looks. Attitude is part of personality. It's a huge factor.
For ex that girl in the pic, after talking her for 5 min I might find out she's a selfish nasty b*tch and lower her to a 6.
Building_and_Loan
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Very attractive. Weird you took that picture (unless you didn't) and posted it online, watch out because you never know who happens on this site and could get you in trouble.
But yeah, she's pretty. Looks like she could be catty and sassy though unfortunately haha.
But yeah, she's pretty. Looks like she could be catty and sassy though unfortunately haha.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Come on bro, you are smitten at 31? You should have 10 of her type begging to have sex with you at your age. You are not a teenager in love, you are an adult who should have the world by its midsection.
This is real world where money and power and sex rules. That's all you should care about.
This is real world where money and power and sex rules. That's all you should care about.
Aryan Prince
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Im i the only one who thinks that the OP might be the woman in the picture.... Damn we be.feeding trolls!!!
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I'm at the girl in the pic. But I feel I'm just as attractive and that's why im lusting after her and all similar girls cuz I feel two attractive peeps should be all over each other.
But yeah...my personality might drop me down a point and vice versa. Or up a point.
Its true money and power rule in the big mans world. Nice to have a slap of reality.
But yeah...my personality might drop me down a point and vice versa. Or up a point.
Its true money and power rule in the big mans world. Nice to have a slap of reality.
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* I'm not the girl
Aryan Prince
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Charisma, smell good, have.a good body beats money and power everytime!!!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.