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Gauging
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
HB?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Aryan Prince
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8 to 10.dependant on attitude!
Tictac
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Who gives a flying f*ck what anybody else thinks?
Do YOU like her?
Gauging what?
LOL
Do YOU like her?
Gauging what?
LOL
CuddleJunkie
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Yeah, around 8, I would say 7.5. Who's the girl bro?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Maximus Rex
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Attitude has absolutely NOTHING to do with a woman's looks.
Aryan Prince
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Yer it does iv met attractive women who once opened their mouth they become 4 or 5 less then what they.were originaly. Attitude/2much can make people quite ugly!!! Gauging on looks alone 7-8!
Maximus Rex
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Would that stop you from blowin' her back out though?
Aryan Prince
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It depends how much of a jerk is.... I get off on knocking back gud looking girls who have to much attitude, its brlliant, it ****s them up as the pretty ones are used to white night betas proping their ego, so when u dont play ball they left confused and angry... Pretty cool!!!
SmooveMooves
Master Don Juan
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Video project for class.
I am smitten kitten over here. So I needed to hear that shes not the goddess I think lol
I am smitten kitten over here. So I needed to hear that shes not the goddess I think lol
marmel75
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She is definitely hot, but she is just a woman.
Don't make the mistake most people make of assigning great traits to her based on her looks. Assume she is unworthy of you until she proves otherwise. Looks and personality traits have no bearing on each other.
Act as if she is auditioning for the best thing in the world.....You.
Don't make the mistake most people make of assigning great traits to her based on her looks. Assume she is unworthy of you until she proves otherwise. Looks and personality traits have no bearing on each other.
Act as if she is auditioning for the best thing in the world.....You.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Everyone has a different idea of what is what. Most guys LAUGH at what I consider a 10. As far as the subject... we'll she's attractive but she is not my type. I would approach her she's a 7.
She's kinda hot, I'd give her a 7.5. But she looks like the type who will put on a ton of weight and go downhill quick. In 5-10 years I bet she'll be about a 6.
For ex that girl in the pic, after talking her for 5 min I might find out she's a selfish nasty b*tch and lower her to a 6.
You're usually on point, but this time not so much. A woman's personality augments her looks. Attitude is part of personality. It's a huge factor.
For ex that girl in the pic, after talking her for 5 min I might find out she's a selfish nasty b*tch and lower her to a 6.
Building_and_Loan
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Very attractive. Weird you took that picture (unless you didn't) and posted it online, watch out because you never know who happens on this site and could get you in trouble.
But yeah, she's pretty. Looks like she could be catty and sassy though unfortunately haha.
But yeah, she's pretty. Looks like she could be catty and sassy though unfortunately haha.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Come on bro, you are smitten at 31? You should have 10 of her type begging to have sex with you at your age. You are not a teenager in love, you are an adult who should have the world by its midsection.
This is real world where money and power and sex rules. That's all you should care about.
This is real world where money and power and sex rules. That's all you should care about.
Aryan Prince
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Im i the only one who thinks that the OP might be the woman in the picture.... Damn we be.feeding trolls!!!
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I'm at the girl in the pic. But I feel I'm just as attractive and that's why im lusting after her and all similar girls cuz I feel two attractive peeps should be all over each other.
But yeah...my personality might drop me down a point and vice versa. Or up a point.
Its true money and power rule in the big mans world. Nice to have a slap of reality.
But yeah...my personality might drop me down a point and vice versa. Or up a point.
Its true money and power rule in the big mans world. Nice to have a slap of reality.
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* I'm not the girl
Aryan Prince
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C
Charisma, smell good, have.a good body beats money and power everytime!!!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.