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So. HB asks if you're a player/dj/etc...
What's your best response you can think of?
What's your best response you can think of?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
HB: "Are you a player?"
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
LostAndConfused
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"you tryna get played?"
Mike32ct
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"Not really into sports. I was picked last in gym class lol."
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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You're welcome.Crissco said:
Newbies should avoid self-deprecating humor like my example, but experienced guys like Crissco can certainly pull it off and get a good laugh out of her.
Might at first glance seem like self-depreciation (which is usually not recommended), but it's not really.Mike32ct said:
You're taking her demand for information and putting it back at her in a humorous way (with the plausible deniability that you didn't know what she was really talking about, even though you both know that you did)..
I think this would work, especially if she knows (or it is obvious from your body) that you are fit and play sports.
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My typical response is a bit different:
"Are you a player?"
"Yeah, I am actually, love doing it... (pause for a second while she wonders did he REALLY say that?)
"Mostly cricket at the moment, but also do football and tennis".
(Modify sports to suit your own life)
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
PrettyBoyAJ
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When a girl ask me this I just say. I date girls but I wouldn't consider myself a player. Why do you ask?
I'd just be straight up, no bull****tin, and say: "I know how the game works."
You could also ask what her what her definition of a player is, exactly. In order to prevent being put in any slots you don't want to be put in to.
A girl don't know wtf a player is. I don't even know exactly what a player is.
You could also ask what her what her definition of a player is, exactly. In order to prevent being put in any slots you don't want to be put in to.
A girl don't know wtf a player is. I don't even know exactly what a player is.