“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DJoneday

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don't talk to her over AIM, not unless she IMs you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Glad to see you haven't given up yet.

Tomorrow, walk right up to her and ask her out.

Has she shown interest in you?
 

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You can still ask her out, but if she hasn't shown interest, odds are she'll LJBF you.

Wait until after your birthday....if she's coming to your party and she has a great time, maybe she will think differently of you.

EDIT: Take advantage of that "lil" bus ride. :D
 

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Go on a date...voila! If all goes well...repeat the process...
 

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Re: Make it sound so easy

Originally posted by snareknight08
You make it sound so easy. I guess I could ask her out tomorrow but that would be saying I like her or that would be showing it with actions (which is what I want to do right?) Oh well, anymore advice is welcome.
Asking her out is not saying you like her. It implies that you have interest and wish to become better friends with her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i kinda got a question based off of one of snares questions. i havnt been in the high school dating scene to long( im still a sophomre) so when your asking em out. Do you ask em on a date or to go out with you.

I think i know the answer but want to be sure.
 

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Well, apparently, she's not ready for a relationship. I didn't quite get it: did you ask her out or not?

If she's not willing right now, forget her. You're a busy man; you don't have time for some broad to decide whether or not SHE'LL go out with you. Open your eyes, man: the ball is in her court.

Since this game isn't going anywhere, just play with her words.

"Don't worry, I'm not ready for a relationship either. Shall we just pretend that we never met?"

Make her seem like she's losing an arm by not going out with you.

"Well, we would have had a great time, but....."

i kinda got a question based off of one of snares questions. i havnt been in the high school dating scene to long( im still a sophomre) so when your asking em out. Do you ask em on a date or to go out with you.
Start a new thread.
 

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So you said that quote, and she said "okay"?

If she wasn't laughing histerically, it's over. She's not very interested so nothing will happen anyway.

She still want's to talk to you, and have you sit next to her? She want's you as a friend....

....you can still be her friend, but I'm not sure if this is leading to anything bigger.

Oh and really the reason for this post is to keep my situation updated if anyone is bothering to keep tabs on it at all (other than idiot_boyfriend) which I'm pretty sure is keeping his eye on it
:D :D :D
 

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why aren't you dating her yet?
 
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