"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Haven't screwed it up yet
- Thread starter DJoneday
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
idiot_boyfriend
Senior Don Juan
Tomorrow, walk right up to her and ask her out.
Has she shown interest in you?
idiot_boyfriend
Senior Don Juan
Wait until after your birthday....if she's coming to your party and she has a great time, maybe she will think differently of you.
EDIT: Take advantage of that "lil" bus ride.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
idiot_boyfriend
Senior Don Juan
Asking her out is not saying you like her. It implies that you have interest and wish to become better friends with her.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
TinyFzzyKiwi
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I think i know the answer but want to be sure.
idiot_boyfriend
Senior Don Juan
If she's not willing right now, forget her. You're a busy man; you don't have time for some broad to decide whether or not SHE'LL go out with you. Open your eyes, man: the ball is in her court.
Since this game isn't going anywhere, just play with her words.
"Don't worry, I'm not ready for a relationship either. Shall we just pretend that we never met?"
Make her seem like she's losing an arm by not going out with you.
"Well, we would have had a great time, but....."
Start a new thread.
idiot_boyfriend
Senior Don Juan
If she wasn't laughing histerically, it's over. She's not very interested so nothing will happen anyway.
She still want's to talk to you, and have you sit next to her? She want's you as a friend....
....you can still be her friend, but I'm not sure if this is leading to anything bigger.