You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Seeing that this girl got all hot, do you regret your choice or do you still think you made the right move?Kev07 said:Yes i did.
I put this girl in friendzone(really harshly i might add) and she went about ignoring me completely (can't blame her, i hit the nail pretty hard)
anyways, 2 years later i see her again and she says hi and all that, she looks a lot more attractive with a set of boobs.
Ditto. Funny thing is now they want to hook up and are not even bothering to conceal their interestlucky13 said:ive done it before to girls who i liked at first and then realized they just werent for me (annoying voice, bad attitude, talks to much, etc) and my feelings have never changed once they just become a friend, and the girls ive done this too, 2 of them are still just purley friends to this day (its nice having actuall girl friends, they can hook you up, give you advice and stuff that guy friends couldnt and things)