"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Have You Ever Put A Girl In The Friendship Zone?

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If so, why did you do so? Did your feelings for her ever change? Did the girl start to hate you? I'm curious.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No, but I have purposely became a "nice guy" just so a girl would put me in the friendzone. Probably not the smartest thing to do.. but it got her off my back.. and atleast I didn't break her little heart. She actually thought she was gonna break mine, which was the funny part.

I'm more of an ******* these days.. I converse with a lot of people. Sometimes UG, or not ugly.. just like not hott. They never seem to differentiate from socializing.. and FLIRTING... so sometimes I just like ignore them, mostly the same second they show any sign of interest towards me. It freaks me out.
 
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ive done it before to girls who i liked at first and then realized they just werent for me (annoying voice, bad attitude, talks to much, etc) and my feelings have never changed once they just become a friend, and the girls ive done this too, 2 of them are still just purley friends to this day (its nice having actuall girl friends, they can hook you up, give you advice and stuff that guy friends couldnt and things)
 
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Yes. Currently, this chick I met last semester is bugging me. Somehow she got my Facebook and then my MSN, and now she won't leave me alone. I used to like her, but I realized she just doesn't attract me.

Might make a last minute **** though, if she'll still be around before I leave for the army.

For now on.. I just try to ignore her messages or not play C+F with her..its gets her really excited and horny :) Mind you, she is 2 years older than me (I'm almost 18..and she's 20)
 
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Yes i did.

I put this girl in friendzone(really harshly i might add) and she went about ignoring me completely (can't blame her, i hit the nail pretty hard)

anyways, 2 years later i see her again and she says hi and all that, she looks a lot more attractive with a set of boobs.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kev07 said:
Yes i did.

I put this girl in friendzone(really harshly i might add) and she went about ignoring me completely (can't blame her, i hit the nail pretty hard)

anyways, 2 years later i see her again and she says hi and all that, she looks a lot more attractive with a set of boobs.
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Seeing that this girl got all hot, do you regret your choice or do you still think you made the right move?
 
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lucky13 said:
ive done it before to girls who i liked at first and then realized they just werent for me (annoying voice, bad attitude, talks to much, etc) and my feelings have never changed once they just become a friend, and the girls ive done this too, 2 of them are still just purley friends to this day (its nice having actuall girl friends, they can hook you up, give you advice and stuff that guy friends couldnt and things)
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Ditto. Funny thing is now they want to hook up and are not even bothering to conceal their interest
 
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