"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Have You Ever Put A Girl In The Friendship Zone?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I'm more of an ******* these days.. I converse with a lot of people. Sometimes UG, or not ugly.. just like not hott. They never seem to differentiate from socializing.. and FLIRTING... so sometimes I just like ignore them, mostly the same second they show any sign of interest towards me. It freaks me out.
Might make a last minute **** though, if she'll still be around before I leave for the army.
For now on.. I just try to ignore her messages or not play C+F with her..its gets her really excited and horny
Mind you, she is 2 years older than me (I'm almost 18..and she's 20)Kev07
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I put this girl in friendzone(really harshly i might add) and she went about ignoring me completely (can't blame her, i hit the nail pretty hard)
anyways, 2 years later i see her again and she says hi and all that, she looks a lot more attractive with a set of boobs.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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