"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Have You Ever Put A Girl In The Friendship Zone?

J

Juan_Man

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 3, 2001
Messages
1,103
Reaction score
28
If so, why did you do so? Did your feelings for her ever change? Did the girl start to hate you? I'm curious.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

N

NFC

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 2, 2006
Messages
148
Reaction score
0
No, but I have purposely became a "nice guy" just so a girl would put me in the friendzone. Probably not the smartest thing to do.. but it got her off my back.. and atleast I didn't break her little heart. She actually thought she was gonna break mine, which was the funny part.

I'm more of an ******* these days.. I converse with a lot of people. Sometimes UG, or not ugly.. just like not hott. They never seem to differentiate from socializing.. and FLIRTING... so sometimes I just like ignore them, mostly the same second they show any sign of interest towards me. It freaks me out.
 
L

lucky13

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 2, 2005
Messages
18
Reaction score
0
ive done it before to girls who i liked at first and then realized they just werent for me (annoying voice, bad attitude, talks to much, etc) and my feelings have never changed once they just become a friend, and the girls ive done this too, 2 of them are still just purley friends to this day (its nice having actuall girl friends, they can hook you up, give you advice and stuff that guy friends couldnt and things)
 
T

The_Wolf

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 9, 2007
Messages
87
Reaction score
0
Yes. Currently, this chick I met last semester is bugging me. Somehow she got my Facebook and then my MSN, and now she won't leave me alone. I used to like her, but I realized she just doesn't attract me.

Might make a last minute **** though, if she'll still be around before I leave for the army.

For now on.. I just try to ignore her messages or not play C+F with her..its gets her really excited and horny :) Mind you, she is 2 years older than me (I'm almost 18..and she's 20)
 
Last edited:
K

Kev07

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 2, 2006
Messages
1,706
Reaction score
9
Location
Bay Area, California, Currently in SoCal (UCR)
Yes i did.

I put this girl in friendzone(really harshly i might add) and she went about ignoring me completely (can't blame her, i hit the nail pretty hard)

anyways, 2 years later i see her again and she says hi and all that, she looks a lot more attractive with a set of boobs.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

J

Juan_Man

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 3, 2001
Messages
1,103
Reaction score
28
Kev07 said:
Yes i did.

I put this girl in friendzone(really harshly i might add) and she went about ignoring me completely (can't blame her, i hit the nail pretty hard)

anyways, 2 years later i see her again and she says hi and all that, she looks a lot more attractive with a set of boobs.
Click to expand...
Seeing that this girl got all hot, do you regret your choice or do you still think you made the right move?
 
K

kanaka

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 7, 2007
Messages
27
Reaction score
0
lucky13 said:
ive done it before to girls who i liked at first and then realized they just werent for me (annoying voice, bad attitude, talks to much, etc) and my feelings have never changed once they just become a friend, and the girls ive done this too, 2 of them are still just purley friends to this day (its nice having actuall girl friends, they can hook you up, give you advice and stuff that guy friends couldnt and things)
Click to expand...
Ditto. Funny thing is now they want to hook up and are not even bothering to conceal their interest
 
Last edited:
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top