"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Have You Ever Put A Girl In The Friendship Zone?

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If so, why did you do so? Did your feelings for her ever change? Did the girl start to hate you? I'm curious.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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No, but I have purposely became a "nice guy" just so a girl would put me in the friendzone. Probably not the smartest thing to do.. but it got her off my back.. and atleast I didn't break her little heart. She actually thought she was gonna break mine, which was the funny part.

I'm more of an ******* these days.. I converse with a lot of people. Sometimes UG, or not ugly.. just like not hott. They never seem to differentiate from socializing.. and FLIRTING... so sometimes I just like ignore them, mostly the same second they show any sign of interest towards me. It freaks me out.
 
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ive done it before to girls who i liked at first and then realized they just werent for me (annoying voice, bad attitude, talks to much, etc) and my feelings have never changed once they just become a friend, and the girls ive done this too, 2 of them are still just purley friends to this day (its nice having actuall girl friends, they can hook you up, give you advice and stuff that guy friends couldnt and things)
 
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Yes. Currently, this chick I met last semester is bugging me. Somehow she got my Facebook and then my MSN, and now she won't leave me alone. I used to like her, but I realized she just doesn't attract me.

Might make a last minute **** though, if she'll still be around before I leave for the army.

For now on.. I just try to ignore her messages or not play C+F with her..its gets her really excited and horny :) Mind you, she is 2 years older than me (I'm almost 18..and she's 20)
 
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Yes i did.

I put this girl in friendzone(really harshly i might add) and she went about ignoring me completely (can't blame her, i hit the nail pretty hard)

anyways, 2 years later i see her again and she says hi and all that, she looks a lot more attractive with a set of boobs.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kev07 said:
Yes i did.

I put this girl in friendzone(really harshly i might add) and she went about ignoring me completely (can't blame her, i hit the nail pretty hard)

anyways, 2 years later i see her again and she says hi and all that, she looks a lot more attractive with a set of boobs.
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Seeing that this girl got all hot, do you regret your choice or do you still think you made the right move?
 
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lucky13 said:
ive done it before to girls who i liked at first and then realized they just werent for me (annoying voice, bad attitude, talks to much, etc) and my feelings have never changed once they just become a friend, and the girls ive done this too, 2 of them are still just purley friends to this day (its nice having actuall girl friends, they can hook you up, give you advice and stuff that guy friends couldnt and things)
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Ditto. Funny thing is now they want to hook up and are not even bothering to conceal their interest
 
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