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Master Don Juan
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If yes then what's the reason? Why u run?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Its purely about compliance.If yes then what's the reason? Why u run?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Haning with females your not fvcking drains your swag and masculinity. Being with a group of masculine males who accepts you preserves and conserves your masculinity. Being with feminine females who give you ***** adds to your masculinity.Hanging with my buds. It increases attraction actually lol. Damn main stream makes us believe spending time with the girl increases attraction but it shows that you have better things to do.
I learned that too. She has to give the puzzy or azz. Head only eventually drains you.A girl giving you **** is good as she is testing if your a man or not but if she continues to do that she will drain you.
A man with fine taste.. Way to go brotherI stood up few girls because I wasn't really attracted to them.
It was either connected with their looks OR their character/intelligence (I stood up on hot little blonde bimbo as well as young lawyer that was just so-so in looks as well as on average in looks but nice altough just ok intelligence woman).
So basically speaking it happens for a guys as well (I'm hardly a player, I slept with below 10 woman in my life atm)
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.