"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Have you ever make a gals stood up?

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If yes then what's the reason? Why u run?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Not that I can recall. I've cancelled because I was unwell, but that was it. I tend to treat people, even ones that do not deserve it, like I would like to be treated. Still trying to figure out how to multi-date when there's only a handful of days I can work with. Not as easy as some describe. At least for me. Business first, then me, then my stuff, then women.
 

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Nope I've never stood a woman up, but I have canceled last minute and lied about the reason why.
 

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Met an absolute babe in the bar afternoon drinking then slept in.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hanging with my buds. It increases attraction actually lol. Damn main stream makes us believe spending time with the girl increases attraction but it shows that you have better things to do.
Haning with females your not fvcking drains your swag and masculinity. Being with a group of masculine males who accepts you preserves and conserves your masculinity. Being with feminine females who give you ***** adds to your masculinity.
 

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A girl giving you **** is good as she is testing if your a man or not but if she continues to do that she will drain you.
I learned that too. She has to give the puzzy or azz. Head only eventually drains you.

She also cannot always be on top. That takes your dyck control over time.
 
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I stood up few girls because I wasn't really attracted to them.

It was either connected with their looks OR their character/intelligence (I stood up on hot little blonde bimbo as well as young lawyer that was just so-so in looks as well as on average in looks but nice altough just ok intelligence woman).

So basically speaking it happens for a guys as well (I'm hardly a player, I slept with below 10 woman in my life atm)
A man with fine taste.. Way to go brother
 

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Done it only once when I was young, attracted and approached at a national library, made her wait at a bus stand on first date for 1 half hours I never showed up, I guess I just not that into her. Never know why. She screamed at me on the phone thou.. Lol one of the worst anguish I ever had from a women.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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No. In my eyes doing something like this shows exceptionally poor character. If I found out one of my friends did stuff like this I would end the friendship. I don't want to be associated with people like that.

This is what I consider a "gateway" personality trait that might seem insignificant but in reality it is a massive red flag in that it signifies you have zero respect for other people. Which then necessarily means you have a whole host of other negative traits that I want nothing to do with.
 
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