Focal core
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If yes then what's the reason? Why u run?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Have you ever make a gals stood up?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
SpeedDemon
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Not that I can recall. I've cancelled because I was unwell, but that was it. I tend to treat people, even ones that do not deserve it, like I would like to be treated. Still trying to figure out how to multi-date when there's only a handful of days I can work with. Not as easy as some describe. At least for me. Business first, then me, then my stuff, then women.
logicallefty
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Nope I've never stood a woman up, but I have canceled last minute and lied about the reason why.
DEEZEDBRAH
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Its purely about compliance.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
R
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Wasn’t attracted to them.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Haning with females your not fvcking drains your swag and masculinity. Being with a group of masculine males who accepts you preserves and conserves your masculinity. Being with feminine females who give you ***** adds to your masculinity.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I learned that too. She has to give the puzzy or azz. Head only eventually drains you.
She also cannot always be on top. That takes your dyck control over time.
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Focal core
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A man with fine taste.. Way to go brother
Focal core
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Done it only once when I was young, attracted and approached at a national library, made her wait at a bus stand on first date for 1 half hours I never showed up, I guess I just not that into her. Never know why. She screamed at me on the phone thou.. Lol one of the worst anguish I ever had from a women.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
marmel75
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No. In my eyes doing something like this shows exceptionally poor character. If I found out one of my friends did stuff like this I would end the friendship. I don't want to be associated with people like that.
This is what I consider a "gateway" personality trait that might seem insignificant but in reality it is a massive red flag in that it signifies you have zero respect for other people. Which then necessarily means you have a whole host of other negative traits that I want nothing to do with.
This is what I consider a "gateway" personality trait that might seem insignificant but in reality it is a massive red flag in that it signifies you have zero respect for other people. Which then necessarily means you have a whole host of other negative traits that I want nothing to do with.