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Master Don Juan
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If yes then what's the reason? Why u run?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Its purely about compliance.If yes then what's the reason? Why u run?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Haning with females your not fvcking drains your swag and masculinity. Being with a group of masculine males who accepts you preserves and conserves your masculinity. Being with feminine females who give you ***** adds to your masculinity.Hanging with my buds. It increases attraction actually lol. Damn main stream makes us believe spending time with the girl increases attraction but it shows that you have better things to do.
I learned that too. She has to give the puzzy or azz. Head only eventually drains you.A girl giving you **** is good as she is testing if your a man or not but if she continues to do that she will drain you.
A man with fine taste.. Way to go brotherI stood up few girls because I wasn't really attracted to them.
It was either connected with their looks OR their character/intelligence (I stood up on hot little blonde bimbo as well as young lawyer that was just so-so in looks as well as on average in looks but nice altough just ok intelligence woman).
So basically speaking it happens for a guys as well (I'm hardly a player, I slept with below 10 woman in my life atm)
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.