Glassguy
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If it benefits you to keep a chick around, keep her around. If it doesnt, drop her
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Have a gf but going on a date
- Thread starter Murk
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Murk
Master Don Juan
It did have some benefits for me, but absolutely 0 for her. That's not fair or dealing with things like a man, so she had to go.
You can't live your life being selfish and self-serving, this is not a game. I'm trying to be happy not lonely and bitter on a forum into my last 30s, 40s or 50s (not directed at you GG - just general attitudes on here).