Glassguy
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If it benefits you to keep a chick around, keep her around. If it doesnt, drop her
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Have a gf but going on a date
- Thread starter Murk
- Start date
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Murk
Master Don Juan
It did have some benefits for me, but absolutely 0 for her. That's not fair or dealing with things like a man, so she had to go.
You can't live your life being selfish and self-serving, this is not a game. I'm trying to be happy not lonely and bitter on a forum into my last 30s, 40s or 50s (not directed at you GG - just general attitudes on here).