"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Have a gf but going on a date

Glassguy

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Murkserious said:
I've tried to call her today to break up - no answer, I messaged her "Sophie?" but no response yet.

The truth is keeping girls "just in case" is a weak mentality

It's selfish, self-serving behaviour like that, why the majority of men here hate women, don't become the beast you loathe.

I'm not willing to be part of that, do what's best for you and also be conscious of others you interact with, don't step on the next man/women to make yourself feel better - or you are just as bad as them.

We all aspire to be better people here, let's start living what we preach.

I will make a thread on this break up as soon as I get more information on it.

As always I appreciate everyone's input as we learn and grow together - but ultimately try to become better people and effect everyone we meet, positively.
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If it benefits you to keep a chick around, keep her around. If it doesnt, drop her
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Glassguy said:
If it benefits you to keep a chick around, keep her around. If it doesnt, drop her
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It did have some benefits for me, but absolutely 0 for her. That's not fair or dealing with things like a man, so she had to go.

You can't live your life being selfish and self-serving, this is not a game. I'm trying to be happy not lonely and bitter on a forum into my last 30s, 40s or 50s (not directed at you GG - just general attitudes on here).
 
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