"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Has anyone tried fasting? How effective was it?

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I've never fasted. I eat healthy 3x a day, same portion size every day and adjust as needed. I also exercise every day mixing cardio with weights. I have maintained my weight with a 2-3 lb. +/- fluctuation for the past 25 yrs.

One of my friends does fasting once in a while. He does it more as a means to cleanse his system rather than for weight loss.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Heard of fasting 2 years ago. Started doing it myself 7 months ago. Finally got my 6 pack.

Fasting not only helped to lose the last resistance of belly fat, but also helped to know the exact value of food. Realized that 70% of what I was buying before was completly unnecessary.
It also helps me to be more focused.
 

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All this counting calories and fasting sounds too complicated. Just go to the gym, lift weights, do cardio and eat alot food with high nutritional value and drink lots of water.. dont make things complicated
 

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I fast once a month or so for the cleansing reason, not for weight loss. I feel great after. Weight does come off when I do it but then when I start eating again it comes right back.
 

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All this counting calories and fasting sounds too complicated. Just go to the gym, lift weights, do cardio and eat alot food with high nutritional value and drink lots of water.. dont make things complicated
What's sooo complicated about 'not eating'?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

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So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

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Why not eat when you're just hungry ? But eat something healthy lol
If you eat, you lose survival mode. In this mode your body burns fat and forces your brain to be more focused by fear of dying.
Our ancestors couldn't afford to eat everyday and all the time, their brain was constantly pushing them to hunt and find food. But once they found food and could finally eat, their brain could relax and live another day.
 

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If you eat, you lose survival mode. In this mode your body burns fat and forces your brain to be more focused by fear of dying.
Our ancestors couldn't afford to eat everyday and all the time, their brain was constantly pushing them to hunt and find food. But once they found food and could finally eat, their brain could relax and live another day.
So I'm a constant fear of dying?
I eat when I'm hungry I just eat healthy.
 

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I don't think you get the point
There is also something called apoptosis. When cells die or damaged, fasting burns them up as metabolic fuel. It’s how the body strips the dead cells out. Free radicals are removed and broken down.
Three meals a day is certainly the wrong model. The body runs optimumly on one meal a day with a two or three day fast, off and on. Say once a month.
I’ve been doing it most of a year and now I eat one meal a day most days. Between 4:00 and 6:00 pm, about an hour after my workouts.

The calories in, calories out model is a lie. Metabolic optimization and science say it’s a lie.
Just like low fat diets killed a lot of people. A lot.
Low sodium diets dropped heart patients like flies and they dropped the study.
 

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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

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Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There is also something called apoptosis. When cells die or damaged, fasting burns them up as metabolic fuel. It’s how the body strips the dead cells out. Free radicals are removed and broken down.
Three meals a day is certainly the wrong model. The body runs optimumly on one meal a day with a two or three day fast, off and on. Say once a month.
I’ve been doing it most of a year and now I eat one meal a day most days. Between 4:00 and 6:00 pm, about an hour after my workouts.

The calories in, calories out model is a lie. Metabolic optimization and science say it’s a lie.
Just like low fat diets killed a lot of people. A lot.
Low sodium diets dropped heart patients like flies and they dropped the study.
I believe you. Can i see how its worked for you?
 

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Any aches and pains you have will go away. I’m carrying a bit of shrapnel but it doesn’t bother me any.
Would you say fasting would work for a soccer player ? I train everyday and do intense cardio. Would it get me leaner??
 

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Would you say fasting would work for a soccer player ? I train everyday and do intense cardio. Would it get me leaner??
Yes. But I would start every other day and just go till noon.
So let’s say you didn’t eat past 7:00 pm
Then not eat again till noon the next day. Roughly a 16-17 hour fast.

The most important part, hands down, is HOW you break your fast. Do a search on keto fat bombs. Find the one you like and use it every time you break a fast. If you go right back to burning sugar by feeding yourself grains and sugars...then don’t even fast. Wasted effort.

I don’t believe you will be able to fast every day to start with. If you are a sugar burner (grains, process foods, sugar, etc), you will really struggle until you get your body becomes “fat adapted”.
This is when your body starts running on fat. It’s high octane fuel. Seriously. No exaggeration.
Read the book “Primal blueprint”

The second book is “Primal Endurance” which, in your case, you will need to read.
These days I download them on Audible and listen to them. This is a whole new universe of energy and performance. The writer was a world class triathlon champion. He knows his stuff. His partner was an Olympic level bicycle and marathoner. They both team up to write “Primal Endurance”

You can be as cut as you want. Soon you will be running sprints like me. NOTHING cuts a man up like sprints. When marathoners go keto and do sprints and less road work...they become champions.
 
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Would you say fasting would work for a soccer player ? I train everyday and do intense cardio. Would it get me leaner??
90% of your gains will be from being a fat burner. It’s the diet that transforms you metabolic systems. You turn the sugar/ fat storage gene off and turn on your cave man gene.
This is science. Fully documented. Carb loading trashes an endurance athlete’s body until he is a ragged shell and retires young. Joints and tendons and ligaments completely destroyed.
Most of your diet, over 50% of intake, needs to be good quality fats. That will be your fuel now.
 

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IF has worked well for me at a couple of things. First, it does help A LOT with fat/weight loss. 8pm-noon the next day works pretty good for me. I've done an 18 hour fast before as well, even got a pretty good workout in during it. The other thing it has helped with has been controlling my blood sugars (Type 1 Diabetes). I'm on an insulin pump and the thing just hums right along , adjusting insulin delivery in real time based on my blood sugar. Less food in your system helps to increase insulin sensitivity which results in less insulin being used or produced.

I say give it an honest effort of a week and then make a decision about whether it is right for you.
 

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I fast 16 hours everyday. The biggest change I noticed was that I no longer feel like I need a nap halfway through the day. Sometimes I have to force myself to go to sleep. Even smoking weed doesn't make me sleepy anymore
 

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Yes. But I would start every other day and just go till noon.
So let’s say you didn’t eat past 7:00 pm
Then not eat again till noon the next day. Roughly a 16-17 hour fast.

The most important part, hands down, is HOW you break your fast. Do a search on keto fat bombs. Find the one you like and use it every time you break a fast. If you go right back to burning sugar by feeding yourself grains and sugars...then don’t even fast. Wasted effort.

I don’t believe you will be able to fast every day to start with. If you are a sugar burner (grains, process foods, sugar, etc), you will really struggle until you get your body becomes “fat adapted”.
This is when your body starts running on fat. It’s high octane fuel. Seriously. No exaggeration.
Read the book “Primal blueprint”

The second book is “Primal Endurance” which, in your case, you will need to read.
These days I download them on Audible and listen to them. This is a whole new universe of energy and performance. The writer was a world class triathlon champion. He knows his stuff. His partner was an Olympic level bicycle and marathoner. They both team up to write “Primal Endurance”

You can be as cut as you want. Soon you will be running sprints like me. NOTHING cuts a man up like sprints. When marathoners go keto and do sprints and less road work...they become champions.

Yo this is solid advice i gota say. I have been fasting now for around 3 months and its been the best decision i made to lose weight, I went from 84.5kg to 77.5kg but there is still a long way to go. Like Ranger says its really important to break your fast correctly otherwise all the hard work will be lost.

Ranger i am interested to know what a keto fat bomb is? Is it a supplement you buy or make yourself? I am from the UK so there isnt alot i can find about this...

I will start to break my fast know with more fatty foods rather then the grains/sugars you are talking about..

But yeah IF was a gamechanger for me in more ways than one!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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