Dhoulmagus
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This girl pretty much told me to hit her up when she I have free time. Is it a trap?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Has a girl ever told you to ask her out
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Redwood
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Elaborate more please on this path of least resistance.
Dhoulmagus
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I left town this weekend and she got hurt by it. Didnt even tell her I was because it's none of her business. She asked me when I got back and to ask her out whenever I had free time.Redwood said:
Dhoulmagus said:
unless you hit her ignore the hurt part, its up to you really, maybe she want to hang out with you or just said by reflex.
thing is what you want to do? then do it be calling ehr and asking her out or not
I would NEVER ask out a girl "on command." If she's telling me to call her and ask her out, my response is "Sounds like you *really* want to see me. When are you free to get together?"
If she gives you any $hit for not specifically calling her to ask her out formally, you call her on it. "Look, honey, YOU want to see ME. We can set up something now or you can reach out later and we can set something up then."
I for one, would resist any attempt by a woman to have me specifically call to ask her out as if by some script, in order to validate her insecurities and make her feel like she's being courted. Huge red flag.
If she gives you any $hit for not specifically calling her to ask her out formally, you call her on it. "Look, honey, YOU want to see ME. We can set up something now or you can reach out later and we can set something up then."
I for one, would resist any attempt by a woman to have me specifically call to ask her out as if by some script, in order to validate her insecurities and make her feel like she's being courted. Huge red flag.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
it can be possible but more like friendly banther or just reflex, since anything who can happen now depends on him its up to him if he calls her or not if he want go ahead and call her if not wait her give any signal.mangotot said:
I consider it like you meet a old friend you don't see for a long time and both of you says we should do something together to remember the old times and you agree and says you noth should and invite teh old gang, in the end never did happen. that is what I see here, but it don't make him to try, asking someone out shouldn't be hard