Dhoulmagus
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This girl pretty much told me to hit her up when she I have free time. Is it a trap?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Has a girl ever told you to ask her out
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Redwood
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Elaborate more please on this path of least resistance.
Dhoulmagus
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I left town this weekend and she got hurt by it. Didnt even tell her I was because it's none of her business. She asked me when I got back and to ask her out whenever I had free time.Redwood said:
Dhoulmagus said:
unless you hit her ignore the hurt part, its up to you really, maybe she want to hang out with you or just said by reflex.
thing is what you want to do? then do it be calling ehr and asking her out or not
I would NEVER ask out a girl "on command." If she's telling me to call her and ask her out, my response is "Sounds like you *really* want to see me. When are you free to get together?"
If she gives you any $hit for not specifically calling her to ask her out formally, you call her on it. "Look, honey, YOU want to see ME. We can set up something now or you can reach out later and we can set something up then."
I for one, would resist any attempt by a woman to have me specifically call to ask her out as if by some script, in order to validate her insecurities and make her feel like she's being courted. Huge red flag.
If she gives you any $hit for not specifically calling her to ask her out formally, you call her on it. "Look, honey, YOU want to see ME. We can set up something now or you can reach out later and we can set something up then."
I for one, would resist any attempt by a woman to have me specifically call to ask her out as if by some script, in order to validate her insecurities and make her feel like she's being courted. Huge red flag.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
it can be possible but more like friendly banther or just reflex, since anything who can happen now depends on him its up to him if he calls her or not if he want go ahead and call her if not wait her give any signal.mangotot said:
I consider it like you meet a old friend you don't see for a long time and both of you says we should do something together to remember the old times and you agree and says you noth should and invite teh old gang, in the end never did happen. that is what I see here, but it don't make him to try, asking someone out shouldn't be hard