"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hair transplant tomorrow

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Holy cow! 3 needed to get some good hair going? Man, you were REALLY bald. LOL
Good for your persistence! :up:
Ha ha! Is it something you have had done,or are looking at ?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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No apologies needed sir. I had 3,they all were fine,but I was quite bald! Only so many grafts will take in one session,so I just had it thickened up a bit more thats all.Over 6 years. But very happy
At this point (its really looks good), ill have another HT too if my hair ever recedes again. Beside its nature of transplanted hair taken from your back it will last for life. Its crazy.
 

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Ha ha! Is it something you have had done,or are looking at ?
I'm looking to do it possibly in 1-2 years. I have hair now and it's not receding but just less hair on top and not as full. It's been like that for the past 10-12 years and hasn't gotten worse yet, hence my delayed stance to pull the trigger.

Has anyone here gotten a hair transplant in Turkey? I hear good things and it's a fraction of the price as the USA.
 

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I'm looking to do it possibly in 1-2 years. I have hair now and it's not receding but just less hair on top and not as full. It's been like that for the past 10-12 years and hasn't gotten worse yet, hence my delayed stance to pull the trigger.

Has anyone here gotten a hair transplant in Turkey? I hear good things and it's a fraction of the price as the USA.
Ah ok,just remember the longer you leave it the less your options are and the more it will cost...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ah ok,just remember the longer you leave it the less your options are and the more it will cost...
Thanks. I kind of knew that deep inside but something is preventing me from acting right away.

I have thinning hair on the top but girls I've gone out with told me they don't notice it or hardly notice it. So it hasn't really bothered me that much this whole time.

Question is if I go now for hair transplant, will they need to shave off my hair? Or will they just transplant new follicles around the hair I still do have?
 

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Thanks. I kind of knew that deep inside but something is preventing me from acting right away.

I have thinning hair on the top but girls I've gone out with told me they don't notice it or hardly notice it. So it hasn't really bothered me that much this whole time.

Question is if I go now for hair transplant, will they need to shave off my hair? Or will they just transplant new follicles around the hair I still do have?
It depends.They can do your hair without shaving it (unshaved FUE) but its a lot more expensive,and also,its harder for the surgeon to do,hence why its costs more.Typically,they will shave all your head to make it easier to work with (in my view ul get a better result this way also.) That wasnt an issue for me as I had short hair anyways,its no biggie,it grows back! They transplant around the follicles you have yes.If your issue is you want your hairline back that will be discussed and they will literally draw a pen line on your forehead and you can work with placement of this between you,however,a decent and reputable surgeon wont go to low,ie,give you your teenage hairline back if you are 50 for example,it should be better yes,but age appropiate.Think of the ageing Hollywood stars of yesterday,who wore wigs,they looked obvious because the hairline was to flat and straight and low! I know there are exceptions but most blokes get a bit of a widows peak,the so called "Mcdonalds" hairline (M) Dont base your choice on getting down to a cheap price,remember,you will be walking about with this on your head for the rest of your natural.......Im not saying more expensive is necessarily better,but,just think about it...you get what you pay for
 

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Hey guys its roughly 14 weeks now.. Going for 4 month in 3 week, just thought to post and update,.. Cheers..

norwood 0? Maybe.
Compared to the before pictures, this is pretty outstanding. Good stuff brother.

Keep those updates coming.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Compared to the before pictures, this is pretty outstanding. Good stuff brother.

Keep those updates coming.

Modern Man Advice
Thanks modern man, yeah its seems to be good but i think its need to be a little bit longer to achieve the looks that i want..
 

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Dude that is excellent for 14 weeks. Do all of the transplant seems to be holding or have you noticed any hair falling out when taking a shower?
Thank you.. The shedding start at month 1 which i lost 50% and the shedding hair starting to grow again about after month 2.. Only thinner than it was. So far there is no hairfall except growth. Looking for a thicker hair forward.
 

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Looks good focal core. If you don't mind me asking, how much did it cost? Apologies if this was already discussed in the thread.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Another update.. 5 month in going for 6 month.. Bad hair cut as hair saloon closed due to mco.. diy cut.
Its never stop getting better yet. Cheers.

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