"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Hair Styles?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Tha Realnezz
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Spookey
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go to a salon and tell them you want your hair changed, they will ask how you want it done. ask if they have any books. ask them what the fashions are.
my tip is dont follow the fashions to a T, you dont want to be a clone of ever other guy out there, you want to stand out from the crowd and show you are a man and are confident and not afraid to be different
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
The_Lifter
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http://mensfashion.about.com/od/goominghair/ss/?once=true&
Not much, but it's something.
I think something like this works for most at the moment:
seanchai
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http://www.bbc.co.uk/6music/events/hub/media/pw7.jpg
I don't look like anyone but Paul Weller.
coolguy676767
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I never like to insult anybody and try to be as nice as I can on here, but that is seriously one of the worst haircut styles I have ever seen. I mean really, its that bad in my opinion.
I think that the hair tells alot about a person, and people who have boring haircuts are instantly being judged by me as boring people. I'm not saying you should have crazy hair, but I think it's a good idea to have a cool haircut that stands out from the crowd.
I've always had hairstyles that draws attention. This results in more people remembering me, and due to the fact that I'm very good at social settings, i tend to expand my social circle very easily. This gives me alot of social proof.
Currently I'm cut like this: In the front it almost covers my eyes, while it's messy and busty on top and in the back. On the sides I comb it close to my head and I feel like it's a great look for me. I have it all bleeched. Like really blond. Everyone says I look swedish, but i take it as a compliment
I hate looking like everyone else......“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
coolguy676767
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Its great that you have such a good attitude. I guess you cant take too much consideration into my opinion, because as far as style and fashion goes I am more traditional I you have to take that into account to.
But hey who cares if I like it as long as the girls like it, props to you if it works for you.
seanchai,wow Iam impressed you response to coolguy's comment was very subtle and don jaun of you. By the way what kind of chicks do you pull?
I cut my own hair, and I do a grade 1 all over.
My hair has NEVER been an issue when attracting women. So don't think about it too much guy.
The_Lifter
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http://img226.imageshack.us/img226/7086/337qp.jpg
http://img308.imageshack.us/img308/8720/dbmanu6036mn.jpg
It was amazing, I had girls opening me to compliment me on my hair, which made the hour or so I spent perfecting it a little less troublesome. Eventually it just became too much work. First I grew it long, like him and wore a hairband - yeah - a hairband. Eventually I just said "**** it" and grade 4'd the SOB. I now have it in the same style as the above, without the bleaching.
Magnatolia
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Cheers
J
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.