"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hair Styles?

donjuan87

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Does anyone know of any sites that have guy's hairstyles? I really want to change my hairstyle, and want a site that shows different styles and how to achieve the look of each.

Can anyone help?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Tha Realnezz

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I think this place needs a Fashion/Style thread.
 

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dude just go to a hairstylist, spend the 25-50 dollars and just do it once. Also make sure that a gay hairstylist does your hair (no joke). They will really try and make you look good,
 

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Originally posted by donjuan87
Does anyone know of any sites that have guy's hairstyles? I really want to change my hairstyle, and want a site that shows different styles and how to achieve the look of each.

Can anyone help?
go to a salon and tell them you want your hair changed, they will ask how you want it done. ask if they have any books. ask them what the fashions are.
my tip is dont follow the fashions to a T, you dont want to be a clone of ever other guy out there, you want to stand out from the crowd and show you are a man and are confident and not afraid to be different
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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coolguy676767

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Originally posted by seanchai
This is what my hair looks like.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/6music/events/hub/media/pw7.jpg

I don't look like anyone but Paul Weller.
I never like to insult anybody and try to be as nice as I can on here, but that is seriously one of the worst haircut styles I have ever seen. I mean really, its that bad in my opinion.
 

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You could either go neutral with a simple and short hairstyle, OR you could get a special, peacoking one..

I think that the hair tells alot about a person, and people who have boring haircuts are instantly being judged by me as boring people. I'm not saying you should have crazy hair, but I think it's a good idea to have a cool haircut that stands out from the crowd.
I've always had hairstyles that draws attention. This results in more people remembering me, and due to the fact that I'm very good at social settings, i tend to expand my social circle very easily. This gives me alot of social proof.

Currently I'm cut like this: In the front it almost covers my eyes, while it's messy and busty on top and in the back. On the sides I comb it close to my head and I feel like it's a great look for me. I have it all bleeched. Like really blond. Everyone says I look swedish, but i take it as a compliment :p I hate looking like everyone else......
 

seanchai

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Originally posted by coolguy676767
I never like to insult anybody and try to be as nice as I can on here, but that is seriously one of the worst haircut styles I have ever seen. I mean really, its that bad in my opinion.
Hahaha, I appreciate the candor. People I know seem to like it more than you do, but I realize it's not widely applicable like the spiky gel dealy that someone else posted.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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coolguy676767

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Originally posted by seanchai
Hahaha, I appreciate the candor. People I know seem to like it more than you do, but I realize it's not widely applicable like the spiky gel dealy that someone else posted.
Its great that you have such a good attitude. I guess you cant take too much consideration into my opinion, because as far as style and fashion goes I am more traditional I you have to take that into account to.

But hey who cares if I like it as long as the girls like it, props to you if it works for you.
 

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Who honestly cares what hair style you have?As long as the chicks you prefer dig it,am I right?
seanchai,wow Iam impressed you response to coolguy's comment was very subtle and don jaun of you. By the way what kind of chicks do you pull?
 

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Well I'm bald. I have lost most of my hair on the top, so I am kinda forced to keep the sides very short as well.

I cut my own hair, and I do a grade 1 all over.

My hair has NEVER been an issue when attracting women. So don't think about it too much guy.
 

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I used to have it bleached like Beckham for a while - this:

http://img226.imageshack.us/img226/7086/337qp.jpg

http://img308.imageshack.us/img308/8720/dbmanu6036mn.jpg

It was amazing, I had girls opening me to compliment me on my hair, which made the hour or so I spent perfecting it a little less troublesome. Eventually it just became too much work. First I grew it long, like him and wore a hairband - yeah - a hairband. Eventually I just said "**** it" and grade 4'd the SOB. I now have it in the same style as the above, without the bleaching.
 

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www.thehairstyler.com - they charge, but I don't know how much. You upload your photo and it adds the different hairstyles on your head. The resulting image is pretty bad but it gives you a rough idea of what that particular style would look like. Also they supply heaps of celeb hair styles.

Cheers
J
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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