"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hair Styles?

donjuan87

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Does anyone know of any sites that have guy's hairstyles? I really want to change my hairstyle, and want a site that shows different styles and how to achieve the look of each.

Can anyone help?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tha Realnezz

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I think this place needs a Fashion/Style thread.
 

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dude just go to a hairstylist, spend the 25-50 dollars and just do it once. Also make sure that a gay hairstylist does your hair (no joke). They will really try and make you look good,
 

Spookey

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Originally posted by donjuan87
Does anyone know of any sites that have guy's hairstyles? I really want to change my hairstyle, and want a site that shows different styles and how to achieve the look of each.

Can anyone help?
go to a salon and tell them you want your hair changed, they will ask how you want it done. ask if they have any books. ask them what the fashions are.
my tip is dont follow the fashions to a T, you dont want to be a clone of ever other guy out there, you want to stand out from the crowd and show you are a man and are confident and not afraid to be different
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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coolguy676767

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Originally posted by seanchai
This is what my hair looks like.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/6music/events/hub/media/pw7.jpg

I don't look like anyone but Paul Weller.
I never like to insult anybody and try to be as nice as I can on here, but that is seriously one of the worst haircut styles I have ever seen. I mean really, its that bad in my opinion.
 

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You could either go neutral with a simple and short hairstyle, OR you could get a special, peacoking one..

I think that the hair tells alot about a person, and people who have boring haircuts are instantly being judged by me as boring people. I'm not saying you should have crazy hair, but I think it's a good idea to have a cool haircut that stands out from the crowd.
I've always had hairstyles that draws attention. This results in more people remembering me, and due to the fact that I'm very good at social settings, i tend to expand my social circle very easily. This gives me alot of social proof.

Currently I'm cut like this: In the front it almost covers my eyes, while it's messy and busty on top and in the back. On the sides I comb it close to my head and I feel like it's a great look for me. I have it all bleeched. Like really blond. Everyone says I look swedish, but i take it as a compliment :p I hate looking like everyone else......
 

seanchai

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Originally posted by coolguy676767
I never like to insult anybody and try to be as nice as I can on here, but that is seriously one of the worst haircut styles I have ever seen. I mean really, its that bad in my opinion.
Hahaha, I appreciate the candor. People I know seem to like it more than you do, but I realize it's not widely applicable like the spiky gel dealy that someone else posted.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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coolguy676767

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Originally posted by seanchai
Hahaha, I appreciate the candor. People I know seem to like it more than you do, but I realize it's not widely applicable like the spiky gel dealy that someone else posted.
Its great that you have such a good attitude. I guess you cant take too much consideration into my opinion, because as far as style and fashion goes I am more traditional I you have to take that into account to.

But hey who cares if I like it as long as the girls like it, props to you if it works for you.
 

blinkwatt

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Who honestly cares what hair style you have?As long as the chicks you prefer dig it,am I right?
seanchai,wow Iam impressed you response to coolguy's comment was very subtle and don jaun of you. By the way what kind of chicks do you pull?
 

Fash

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Well I'm bald. I have lost most of my hair on the top, so I am kinda forced to keep the sides very short as well.

I cut my own hair, and I do a grade 1 all over.

My hair has NEVER been an issue when attracting women. So don't think about it too much guy.
 

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I used to have it bleached like Beckham for a while - this:

http://img226.imageshack.us/img226/7086/337qp.jpg

http://img308.imageshack.us/img308/8720/dbmanu6036mn.jpg

It was amazing, I had girls opening me to compliment me on my hair, which made the hour or so I spent perfecting it a little less troublesome. Eventually it just became too much work. First I grew it long, like him and wore a hairband - yeah - a hairband. Eventually I just said "**** it" and grade 4'd the SOB. I now have it in the same style as the above, without the bleaching.
 

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www.thehairstyler.com - they charge, but I don't know how much. You upload your photo and it adds the different hairstyles on your head. The resulting image is pretty bad but it gives you a rough idea of what that particular style would look like. Also they supply heaps of celeb hair styles.

Cheers
J
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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