"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Hair Styles?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Tha Realnezz
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Spookey
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go to a salon and tell them you want your hair changed, they will ask how you want it done. ask if they have any books. ask them what the fashions are.
my tip is dont follow the fashions to a T, you dont want to be a clone of ever other guy out there, you want to stand out from the crowd and show you are a man and are confident and not afraid to be different
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The_Lifter
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http://mensfashion.about.com/od/goominghair/ss/?once=true&
Not much, but it's something.
I think something like this works for most at the moment:
seanchai
Master Don Juan
http://www.bbc.co.uk/6music/events/hub/media/pw7.jpg
I don't look like anyone but Paul Weller.
coolguy676767
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I never like to insult anybody and try to be as nice as I can on here, but that is seriously one of the worst haircut styles I have ever seen. I mean really, its that bad in my opinion.
I think that the hair tells alot about a person, and people who have boring haircuts are instantly being judged by me as boring people. I'm not saying you should have crazy hair, but I think it's a good idea to have a cool haircut that stands out from the crowd.
I've always had hairstyles that draws attention. This results in more people remembering me, and due to the fact that I'm very good at social settings, i tend to expand my social circle very easily. This gives me alot of social proof.
Currently I'm cut like this: In the front it almost covers my eyes, while it's messy and busty on top and in the back. On the sides I comb it close to my head and I feel like it's a great look for me. I have it all bleeched. Like really blond. Everyone says I look swedish, but i take it as a compliment
I hate looking like everyone else......"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
coolguy676767
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Its great that you have such a good attitude. I guess you cant take too much consideration into my opinion, because as far as style and fashion goes I am more traditional I you have to take that into account to.
But hey who cares if I like it as long as the girls like it, props to you if it works for you.
seanchai,wow Iam impressed you response to coolguy's comment was very subtle and don jaun of you. By the way what kind of chicks do you pull?
I cut my own hair, and I do a grade 1 all over.
My hair has NEVER been an issue when attracting women. So don't think about it too much guy.
The_Lifter
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http://img226.imageshack.us/img226/7086/337qp.jpg
http://img308.imageshack.us/img308/8720/dbmanu6036mn.jpg
It was amazing, I had girls opening me to compliment me on my hair, which made the hour or so I spent perfecting it a little less troublesome. Eventually it just became too much work. First I grew it long, like him and wore a hairband - yeah - a hairband. Eventually I just said "**** it" and grade 4'd the SOB. I now have it in the same style as the above, without the bleaching.
Magnatolia
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Cheers
J
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.