"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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GYM - Women perceive the body THE SAME WAY WE DO + It's 100% LEGIT

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1) Countering the "muh gym is cope"

It's common misconception that gymeceling doesn't work, and that "muh, face is everything.. You don't need to gymcel".

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- By nature, muscles and good bone structure are evolutionarily a symbol that you can get plenty of nutrition, you are intimidating and strong. But most of us don't have the wide V taper, and a good muscle mass - THAT'S WHY WE GYM, AND IT'S SUCCESSFUL !!!

2) Women don't like gymcels argument

It's a fairytale myth.
Most girls are single just because they expect a chad to commit to them. Women are hornier for chad than even the most sex-starved incel is for 18 yr old Stacy. Being a buffed average dude still doesn't mean that women don't secretly thirst over you.

3) Women wants to evaluate you

- Another reason as to why women are generally portraited to hate gymcels is to gaslight you into not improving your physical appearance, they literally don't WANT YOU TO SUCCED. IT MAKES THEM LESS VALUABLE as comparable to YOU !!!

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For anyone that still does not believe after all that, here is results from a tinder experiment with a guy who has a below average face but a fit muscular body
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There is something to be said about having a fit body, but like everything else that is talked about, it's not the only trait that matters.

Pook talked about this, and I've experienced the difference from weighing 135 pounds to weighting 175 pounds in the way people treated me.
 

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You need to look strong, period. People give respect to a strong man based on first glance.
If you're a skinny, introverted white dude....

I'd recommend taking a trip to Japan or South Korea or something....the girls would flock all over you. In their soap operas..the main male protagonist is always some skinny, introverted dude.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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One point I’d want to add is that you don’t need to look like an IFBB Pro Bodybuilder to reap the benefits of this.

A “beach body” is all you need. That way, you don’t have to be as strict as these IFBB Pros and you can have some semblance of a normal life while you’re getting in shape.
 

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It doesn't even matter if it gets you female interest or not (and it does). The fact is that all people should be in shape if they want to lead healthy and pain-free lives.
 

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And here I thought this forum was purely about fitness.

Yet you meatheads still found a way to shoe-horn women into it.
Good job.
 

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Everything matters. And being fit is great. Exercise is fun. Though face > everything else.
 

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+1 fitness
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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