"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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GYM - Women perceive the body THE SAME WAY WE DO + It's 100% LEGIT

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1) Countering the "muh gym is cope"

It's common misconception that gymeceling doesn't work, and that "muh, face is everything.. You don't need to gymcel".

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- By nature, muscles and good bone structure are evolutionarily a symbol that you can get plenty of nutrition, you are intimidating and strong. But most of us don't have the wide V taper, and a good muscle mass - THAT'S WHY WE GYM, AND IT'S SUCCESSFUL !!!

2) Women don't like gymcels argument

It's a fairytale myth.
Most girls are single just because they expect a chad to commit to them. Women are hornier for chad than even the most sex-starved incel is for 18 yr old Stacy. Being a buffed average dude still doesn't mean that women don't secretly thirst over you.

3) Women wants to evaluate you

- Another reason as to why women are generally portraited to hate gymcels is to gaslight you into not improving your physical appearance, they literally don't WANT YOU TO SUCCED. IT MAKES THEM LESS VALUABLE as comparable to YOU !!!

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For anyone that still does not believe after all that, here is results from a tinder experiment with a guy who has a below average face but a fit muscular body
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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There is something to be said about having a fit body, but like everything else that is talked about, it's not the only trait that matters.

Pook talked about this, and I've experienced the difference from weighing 135 pounds to weighting 175 pounds in the way people treated me.
 

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You need to look strong, period. People give respect to a strong man based on first glance.
If you're a skinny, introverted white dude....

I'd recommend taking a trip to Japan or South Korea or something....the girls would flock all over you. In their soap operas..the main male protagonist is always some skinny, introverted dude.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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One point I’d want to add is that you don’t need to look like an IFBB Pro Bodybuilder to reap the benefits of this.

A “beach body” is all you need. That way, you don’t have to be as strict as these IFBB Pros and you can have some semblance of a normal life while you’re getting in shape.
 

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It doesn't even matter if it gets you female interest or not (and it does). The fact is that all people should be in shape if they want to lead healthy and pain-free lives.
 

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And here I thought this forum was purely about fitness.

Yet you meatheads still found a way to shoe-horn women into it.
Good job.
 

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Everything matters. And being fit is great. Exercise is fun. Though face > everything else.
 

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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