Shootin4Dreams
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this video is changing my mind how to conversation with women when I ask where do u work I know to reply in sarcastic teasing way. etc.. so YES YES yes!
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Guys who have trouble talking to girls in conversation here you go!
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this video is changing my mind how to conversation with women when I ask where do u work I know to reply in sarcastic teasing way. etc.. so YES YES yes!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Shootin4Dreams
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When and how would you guys inject sexual questions into conversation though?
sunnykhatri736
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The way that guy is mentioning on how to talk to women in that video . I already do that naturally . I mean that comes naturally in me since birth.
zekko
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Why does it seem like every one of these PUA guru types comes off like some kind of slimy tool?
I tend to agree with this. Either approach can work, this way just makes everything happen easier IMO.
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That isn't going to get you laid tho as you already found out if all you are willing to do is talk to them. You still have to get sexual and escalate.
A guy who doesn't know how to talk to women that well but gets sexual and escalates will get laid far more often than a guy who knows how to talk to women but doesn't get sexual or escalate.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
NSX-R
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"All you need is the DJ Bible"
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This is undoubtedly true, although I question the need to lead with the sexual stuff. Depends on the context and the situation, IMO. Obviously if you are at a party with drinking looking to hookup with some strange chick that night, you might want to lead with the sexual stuff. In a somewhat more formal social setting, maybe not.
I also wonder about the kind of girl who responds to a guy who immediately goes to the sexual material. Such a girl might be more the slvtty type, although I guess that is the type of girl that a typical PUA wants to target.