Shootin4Dreams
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this video is changing my mind how to conversation with women when I ask where do u work I know to reply in sarcastic teasing way. etc.. so YES YES yes!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Guys who have trouble talking to girls in conversation here you go!
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this video is changing my mind how to conversation with women when I ask where do u work I know to reply in sarcastic teasing way. etc.. so YES YES yes!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Shootin4Dreams
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When and how would you guys inject sexual questions into conversation though?
sunnykhatri736
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The way that guy is mentioning on how to talk to women in that video . I already do that naturally . I mean that comes naturally in me since birth.
zekko
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Why does it seem like every one of these PUA guru types comes off like some kind of slimy tool?
I tend to agree with this. Either approach can work, this way just makes everything happen easier IMO.
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That isn't going to get you laid tho as you already found out if all you are willing to do is talk to them. You still have to get sexual and escalate.
A guy who doesn't know how to talk to women that well but gets sexual and escalates will get laid far more often than a guy who knows how to talk to women but doesn't get sexual or escalate.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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"All you need is the DJ Bible"
zekko
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This is undoubtedly true, although I question the need to lead with the sexual stuff. Depends on the context and the situation, IMO. Obviously if you are at a party with drinking looking to hookup with some strange chick that night, you might want to lead with the sexual stuff. In a somewhat more formal social setting, maybe not.
I also wonder about the kind of girl who responds to a guy who immediately goes to the sexual material. Such a girl might be more the slvtty type, although I guess that is the type of girl that a typical PUA wants to target.