Shootin4Dreams
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this video is changing my mind how to conversation with women when I ask where do u work I know to reply in sarcastic teasing way. etc.. so YES YES yes!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Guys who have trouble talking to girls in conversation here you go!
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this video is changing my mind how to conversation with women when I ask where do u work I know to reply in sarcastic teasing way. etc.. so YES YES yes!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Shootin4Dreams
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When and how would you guys inject sexual questions into conversation though?
sunnykhatri736
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The way that guy is mentioning on how to talk to women in that video . I already do that naturally . I mean that comes naturally in me since birth.
zekko
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Why does it seem like every one of these PUA guru types comes off like some kind of slimy tool?
I tend to agree with this. Either approach can work, this way just makes everything happen easier IMO.
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That isn't going to get you laid tho as you already found out if all you are willing to do is talk to them. You still have to get sexual and escalate.
A guy who doesn't know how to talk to women that well but gets sexual and escalates will get laid far more often than a guy who knows how to talk to women but doesn't get sexual or escalate.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
NSX-R
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"All you need is the DJ Bible"
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This is undoubtedly true, although I question the need to lead with the sexual stuff. Depends on the context and the situation, IMO. Obviously if you are at a party with drinking looking to hookup with some strange chick that night, you might want to lead with the sexual stuff. In a somewhat more formal social setting, maybe not.
I also wonder about the kind of girl who responds to a guy who immediately goes to the sexual material. Such a girl might be more the slvtty type, although I guess that is the type of girl that a typical PUA wants to target.